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Post by antibabymamadrama on Feb 18, 2008 12:29:05 GMT -5
Why is it that when you open up your home and come out of your comfort zone for someone else's child. The second the child becomes attached the BM acts all stupid. I mean come who is it hurting? If you handle your business from day one it shouldn't matter who the child becomes attached to at the end of the day he/she knows the real parent. I think its insecurity at it finest  |
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Post by jusdntundstn on Feb 21, 2008 17:04:14 GMT -5
I have to agree with you 100%%%. Its sad to see this behavior in an adult. As for the child, seeing this type of behavior in their parent is only teaching them bitterness. Every child knows who they real mom/dad is in the end. So why by envious. I would be happy if someone was to open up to my child as their own. I mean I would'nt want them mistreating my child. If you can respect my child then I can respect you. Plain and simple. Leave out the unnecessary drama. Just be the Baby's Mama/Dada.  |
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Post by Kristina on Feb 28, 2008 9:23:21 GMT -5
I know what you mean. My boyfriend's baby mama didn't start the drama until she realized that her daughter had bonded more with us than her. Know she has turned her child against us. It really hurts my boyfriend and I because she use to have so much fun with us and be so happy to see us. Now when we pick her up she cries and doesn't want to come with us but as soon as we get home she is fine. I don't know what to do to make her like us again. Any suggestions?
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Post by gemmani on Feb 28, 2008 17:32:39 GMT -5
Hi Kristina, just show the girl love. That's all you can do. Don't talk negatively about the mama (even tho it's sooooooo hard sometimes) and be there for them. Sooner or later she will see through all that bitterness for herself (that's going to be a real eye-opener for her- in a bad way) and will realize who has been talking all the b.s. I'm going through the same thing myself. Fiance has 3 kids with BM. What a piece of work.
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