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Post by angelnmo on Apr 28, 2008 0:46:09 GMT -5
Please, do any of you ladies know of a good support forum that I can join. This one is okay, but I am looking more for something along the lines of instant chatting and coping with the after effects of a cheating partner. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I would confide on this forum, but feel like the issues I have to talk about would be out of place here. Thanks.
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Post by angelnmo on Apr 28, 2008 0:49:24 GMT -5
Let me clarify. I have BMD because my partner cheated on me and got the woman pregnant.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 28, 2008 0:49:52 GMT -5
Angel, a girlfriend of mine told me about a website that she visits. Her DH has not cheated, but she said the website touches on a lot of topics that can affect a marriage/relationship. It also has a discussion forum. The URL is: www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi01_forum.html |
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Post by angelnmo on Apr 28, 2008 0:53:06 GMT -5
Thanks. I am just so confused. It is even harder for me to deal with the BMD because the baby came during my relationship with my man, not before. I have to walk that fine line between accepting a child that will forever remind me of my partners infidelity, being supportive of my partner with a child that was a mistake and not wanted, and the BM who is mad because he didnt leave me for her.
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Post by angelnmo on Apr 28, 2008 0:54:47 GMT -5
You ladies think you have problems. No matter how bad you think you have it, there is always someone worse. I would give anything to trade places with any one of you.
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Post by destini1969 on Apr 28, 2008 3:12:22 GMT -5
I understand where you are with your situation, it's the exact reason for me divorcing my ex-husband. While we were married he cheated and the possibility of him impregnating someone was else was too much for me to deal with. Our plan was to have four children. I stopped at one.
After the baby (born) that BM refused to get a blood test and I just couldn't do it! Hope the site given to you earlier works for you.
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Post by wbmama on Apr 28, 2008 7:50:36 GMT -5
I've seen many books out there for exactally what you're looking for. I think that you two should work together - ex : couples counseling. His cheating was his mistake which is now a problem for both of you - YOU ARE NOT ALONE! He has to be accountable as well. Maybe if you could find a book - buy one for each of you and read it together. You can make it. Its going to take a great deal of effort from both of you. Keep him involved!
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