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Post by brittany on Dec 2, 2009 20:21:44 GMT -5
I agree and honestly I think I've gotten to the point where I dont have the patience to keep it going. I am able to agree to disagree and if you all dont like me then GREAT, move on now. As long as I dont continue to see my name being disgraced then I could care less.
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Post by stargazer on Dec 3, 2009 8:19:56 GMT -5
Wow, Brittany, you're not really making a lot of friends here. I can sympathize with your position to an extent because I stayed with someone after they cheated, got pregnant, and had a child. Everybody told me it was a mistake, but if you really love somebody you'll never leave them no matter what they do. That's what love is. And unfortunately, people can and do take advantage of that. I totally understand how you felt. But your anger is misplaced. Before you went off on everybody, TY was trying to tell you that you were intelligent and deserved better (even though she doesn't know you from Adam). Now you're repaying it by calling everybody ugly and ratty and bald and ghetto. But meanwhile you clearly crave acceptance of some kind. If you want people to accept you, all you gotta do is apologize and leave it behind. Everybody knows where you're coming from when you say you can't leave DH... we've all been in love. Your reaction to that is forgivable. But this other stuff you're doing... posing as youknow, trying to get into other people's FB accounts... you're just torching bridges.
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Post by brittany on Dec 3, 2009 8:50:39 GMT -5
I can agree with you, i re-read my posts and the replies and I did see that a lot of the girls who dont like me today had said some really encouraging things before and honestly if I could re-do it all, I would have handled things better. I see that it was when memy said somethings to me that is when I went off the deep end. However, I can see my wrongs and realize that. You're right. I just get defensive when people say negative things to me or things that I take that way anyhow. I just have a lot going on but one thing is for sure, Im wore out on the arguing and battling. Thanks though for the words
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Post by shadowz on Dec 3, 2009 11:30:24 GMT -5
I've been a lurker here for a few months and I really don't even understand why this has gone on for as long as it has. I read back through old posts and while there may have been a comment here and there, the people on this board have basically moved on from it. I think everyone one should just leave this sad story alone. In the long run it really doesn't matter at all.
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Post by brittany on Dec 3, 2009 12:58:57 GMT -5
I agree that it should be left alone but honestly the people on this board have NOT moved on from it yet b/c my name is brought up ALL the time in posts that have nothing to do with me even, posts are even started about me....This week has been the quietest week concerning the whole thing and I am glad for that. It isnt necessary to even keep dramatizing over it.
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Post by shadowz on Dec 3, 2009 13:09:47 GMT -5
I agree, yet I must respectfully point out the fact that you are the only one still talking about it. In fact, I haven't seen a post about you....except for the ones that you keep posting on. I think everyone is way over this. As a matter of fact, where are all the usual posters? I look forward to their comments but I haven't seen anything in a while.
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Post by brittany on Dec 3, 2009 15:10:32 GMT -5
Who knows,but anyway-Im not to worried about it all or even discussing it anymore either way
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