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Post by lsx347 on Mar 7, 2010 2:41:16 GMT -5
I dont have kids but I am here to talk a little nuts. Get off your asses and quit looking for meal tickets. Someday somehow someone will get a law passed where you lazy f**ks will stop getting paid meal tickets.
Also quit letting worthless f*g**try losers inside your thingy sockets if all your going to do is demand money, look for meal tickets and cause drama...oh wait you have nothing to lose.
One thing about single mama's is all ya'll do is suck your baby daddys checking accounts dry. Well guess what all your good for is sucking me dry.
-KTHXBYE
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 9:48:28 GMT -5
Now I see why the posters on this board become so defensive when someone other than a BD or BM post. I think I can say this in a more respectable way.
Just because one becomes pregnant does not mean you have to have a baby. Having babies (IMO) is reserved for sharing with your husband, not boyfriends who may become husbands but are just potentials at the moment. This is what my mom taught me and at 27, I still don't have any babies. I use birth control and back up birth control. It's common sense honestly.
Here's a geat example of what I mean.
My BF has a 2 year old son by a woman he was in a relationship with for 6 years. The last year of that they were struggling financially & constantly arguing about struggling fiancially. She became pregnant and instead of being responsible and realizing that this may not be a good time to have a baby, she had it thinking it will fix their problems. That is selfish in so many ways. Well once the kid was born the problems got worse and he left HER (not the kid). NOW… he's in a relationship with a more responsible childless woman he absolutely adores. Her parents are wealthy but she struggles because they are letting her lay in the bed she made. Obviously they didn't raise her to make descisons like this so they don't support her financially. They won't give her money w/o a promise of repayment so she never really asks, she just struggles. Alone. The only favor I allow him to do for her is send the CS early and that's because my sympathy wasn't over powered by my snobbiness to let her suffer for her mistake. Yes, she use food stamps. Yes, she has medicaid. Do you think she's wishing she had been smarter? Yes, & Yes it makes me mad that this is what my tax dollars contribute to. The situation could've been avoided but some chicks live in la la land I guess.
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Post by jusdntundstn on Sept 13, 2010 10:10:32 GMT -5
Now I see why the posters on this board become so defensive when someone other than a BD or BM post. I think I can say this in a more respectable way. Just because one becomes pregnant does not mean you have to have a baby. Having babies (IMO) is reserved for sharing with your husband, not boyfriends who may become husbands but are just potentials at the moment. This is what my mom taught me and at 27, I still don't have any babies. I use birth control and back up birth control. It's common sense honestly. Here's a geat example of what I mean. My BF has a 2 year old son by a woman he was in a relationship with for 6 years. The last year of that they were struggling financially & constantly arguing about struggling fiancially. She became pregnant and instead of being responsible and realizing that this may not be a good time to have a baby, she had it thinking it will fix their problems. That is selfish in so many ways. Well once the kid was born the problems got worse and he left HER (not the kid). NOW… he's in a relationship with a more responsible childless woman he absolutely adores. Her parents are wealthy but she struggles because they are letting her lay in the bed she made. Obviously they didn't raise her to make descisons like this so they don't support her financially. They won't give her money w/o a promise of repayment so she never really asks, she just struggles. Alone. The only favor I allow him to do for her is send the CS early and that's because my sympathy wasn't over powered by my snobbiness to let her suffer for her mistake. Yes, she use food stamps. Yes, she has medicaid. Do you think she's wishing she had been smarter? Yes, & Yes it makes me mad that this is what my tax dollars contribute to. The situation could've been avoided but some chicks live in la la land I guess. See now, Trolls have stories too... ;D Guess I'll refrain from the name calling now..  Nice to meet u BTW...lol ;D **memyslfni** |
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 10:12:03 GMT -5
Now I see why the posters on this board become so defensive when someone other than a BD or BM post. I think I can say this in a more respectable way. Just because one becomes pregnant does not mean you have to have a baby. Having babies (IMO) is reserved for sharing with your husband, not boyfriends who may become husbands but are just potentials at the moment. This is what my mom taught me and at 27, I still don't have any babies. I use birth control and back up birth control. It's common sense honestly. Here's a geat example of what I mean. My BF has a 2 year old son by a woman he was in a relationship with for 6 years. The last year of that they were struggling financially & constantly arguing about struggling fiancially. She became pregnant and instead of being responsible and realizing that this may not be a good time to have a baby, she had it thinking it will fix their problems. That is selfish in so many ways. Well once the kid was born the problems got worse and he left HER (not the kid). NOW… he's in a relationship with a more responsible childless woman he absolutely adores. Her parents are wealthy but she struggles because they are letting her lay in the bed she made. Obviously they didn't raise her to make descisons like this so they don't support her financially. They won't give her money w/o a promise of repayment so she never really asks, she just struggles. Alone. The only favor I allow him to do for her is send the CS early and that's because my sympathy wasn't over powered by my snobbiness to let her suffer for her mistake. Yes, she use food stamps. Yes, she has medicaid. Do you think she's wishing she had been smarter? Yes, & Yes it makes me mad that this is what my tax dollars contribute to. The situation could've been avoided but some chicks live in la la land I guess. See now, Trolls have stories too... ;D Guess I'll refrain from the name calling now.. Nice to meet u BTW...lol ;D **memyslfni** LMAO... are you really gonna follow me into every thread I post in? |
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Post by memyslfni on Sept 13, 2010 11:08:00 GMT -5
Just because your not a "statistic", that doesn't give you the right to come here and bash BM's like WE ALL WANT OUR BD'S BACK! YUP I am a BM, but I ain't mad about it! Just keep it real, YOUR MAD BECAUSE YOUR BF HAS TO PAY CS TO HIS BM FOR THE NEXT WHAT....16 YRS!!!! Well guess what, those are the consequences when you choose to be with a man who has kids... |
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 11:18:00 GMT -5
Just because your not a "statistic", that doesn't give you the right to come here and bash BM's like WE ALL WANT OUR BD'S BACK! YUP I am a BM, but I ain't mad about it! Just keep it real, YOUR MAD BECAUSE YOUR BF HAS TO PAY CS TO HIS BM FOR THE NEXT WHAT....16 YRS!!!! Well guess what, those are the consequences when you choose to be with a man who has kids... I wish I were mad, maybe that would help me sympathize with her more. I'm not bashing anyone, just stating the truth. If you are offended by that, it's not my probelm. Why not say that you were offended up front instead of harassing me like that? Also, why would I be mad about CS payments? I'm the bread winner in my household, my childlessness allowed for an education that lead to a career in which I don't have to worry about anything finacially including my man's CS payments. Good try though, I take that it is the case with some women who get involved with guys w/kids if thier poor or broke, but that's beside the point. Some people just feel stronly about these situations, especially when they're involved. I see her situation and conclude that it could've been prevented. |
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 11:20:34 GMT -5
Also, I did not come here calling anyone names and throwing insults. I have an opinion that you do not agree with. You're not fond of that opinion and that's awesome because you're really not suppose to. BUT don't say I'm bashing BMs because you are offended.
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Post by memyslfni on Sept 13, 2010 11:34:17 GMT -5
Also, I did not come here calling anyone names and throwing insults. I have an opinion that you do not agree with. You're not fond of that opinion and that's awesome because you're really not suppose to. BUT don't say I'm bashing BMs because you are offended. LMAO!! Why would I take offense?? Like I said and what you refuse to believe is that sometimes it's the other way around. My BD is still chasin after this azz after what....7 yrs we haven't been together??? Your snide comment was about ME and MY OPINION. Get it right! For future reference, If YOU don't like the comment I make towards someone ELSE. Do urself a favor and keep YOUR comments to yourself..  |
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Post by triciatenaka on Sept 13, 2010 13:34:25 GMT -5
Also, I did not come here calling anyone names and throwing insults. I have an opinion that you do not agree with. You're not fond of that opinion and that's awesome because you're really not suppose to. BUT don't say I'm bashing BMs because you are offended. LMAO!! Why would I take offense?? Like I said and what you refuse to believe is that sometimes it's the other way around. My BD is still chasin after this azz after what....7 yrs we haven't been together??? Your snide comment was about ME and MY OPINION. Get it right! For future reference, If YOU don't like the comment I make towards someone ELSE. Do urself a favor and keep YOUR comments to yourself.. You STILL sound ignorant. LOL, especially with the "this azz" comment. Any repectable, educated woman would not sit around bragging about how much thier BD want's thier azz. My apologies, most respectbable, educated women would probably not be someone's BM in the first place, so nevermin and carry on LOL. There's not a stigma against women who choose to wait for marriage before popping out babies but thier is against those who don't. I don't think I'm better than you but I think I make better decisions and have more to contribute to the overall outlook than say someone who is a statistic TO the matter at hand. You surely WOULD NOT be A PARENT'S choice of a role model to young girls and I can name at least 3 teenagers who do consider me thiers. OH BUT THIERS MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO BRAG ABOUT, LIKE YOUR BD WANTING YOUR ASS. Un-f**king-believable |
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Post by ty1981 on Sept 13, 2010 19:18:01 GMT -5
Any educated woman would know that THERE'S more important things to brag about. Use proper grammar when speaking of someones educational level, Triciatenaka.
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Post by memy on Sept 14, 2010 20:39:22 GMT -5
I dislike having to come out of my character like that but some folks just don't understand the concept of disagreeing respectfully..  |
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 17, 2010 7:06:43 GMT -5
My apologies, most respectbable, educated women would probably not be someone's BM in the first place, so nevermin and carry on LOL.
Wow, you sure you wanna tread this path? Seriously?There's not a stigma against women who choose to wait for marriage before popping out babies but thier is against those who don't. I don't think I'm better than you but I think I make better decisions and have more to contribute to the overall outlook than say someone who is a statistic TO the matter at hand. Girl you are full of them I see. LOL You surely WOULD NOT be A PARENT'S choice of a role model to young girls and I can name at least 3 teenagers who do consider me thiers. OH BUT THIERS MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO BRAG ABOUT, LIKE YOUR BD WANTING YOUR ASS. Un-f**king-believable Actually you are pretty unbelievable yourself. Nice to meet you: |
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Post by appleblossom on Sept 22, 2010 1:32:12 GMT -5
I dont have kids but I am here to talk a little nuts. Get off your asses and quit looking for meal tickets. Someday somehow someone will get a law passed where you lazy f**ks will stop getting paid meal tickets. Also quit letting worthless f*g**try losers inside your thingy sockets if all your going to do is demand money, look for meal tickets and cause drama...oh wait you have nothing to lose. One thing about single mama's is all ya'll do is suck your baby daddys checking accounts dry. Well guess what all your good for is sucking me dry. -KTHXBYE How about this lsx347. Put your d**k back in your pants and quit looking for the next hole to f**k. Someday someone will make an invention that helps you dumb fuggs to think with your big head instead of the little one. You know there are opportunistic women out there waiting for the next sucker to be her meal ticket, so wrap it up. It's not just to prevent pregnancy but STDs too (who woulda thought)... cuz wait.. you have everything to lose. One thing about ignorant little boys is ya'll f**k anything with a warm hole and some tig ole biddies. Yeah, I know she's jus looking for a meal ticket, but shawty got skillz. Well guess what? All ya'll is good for is fattening a single mother's bank account (and maybe laying down some good pipe once in a while). |
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Post by youknow on Oct 15, 2010 19:11:42 GMT -5
That chick me my is obviously delusional maybe BM valued life and wanted her child. nuts happens there are worse things than food stamps and medicaid. Hell medicaid is better insurance than private. Im a RN i know. stop passing judgement...im like memy rather than bash out of jealousy and resentment find u a childless man since your SO MUCH.
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Post by housewife on Oct 29, 2010 15:40:44 GMT -5
I am not judging--but why get angry with someone who waited to have kids...I have friends on both sides of those tracks---I think the difference is when the "BM" has no means of supporting herself--let alone a child....
I chose to wait and I am glad I did--wish I had my kids a little younger cause..they are wearing me out
My BF is a single mom with a great job and BD or not she can hold it down
As for Medicaid--all I have to say is it is not FREE--for those of us who pay into it--and if we fell on hard times it would take years to qualify...
my issue is with those stay at home with 5 kids and 4 BD and I have to work each and everyday and pay for their free ride
I woulda loved to have seen my baby's 1st step---I was at work
but these queens of the system--they stay at home and we take care of them a
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