Post by housewife on Oct 29, 2010 15:22:53 GMT -5
Ok here is my situation--my hubby and I have been together 20 years (since we were 17) and married 10 years.
The BM in question and I have know each other for about as long.
THey have a 19 year old son in college. I love him like he is my own. I have never been one for the drama. He calls me when he needs anything and I never hesitate to help...
My hubby pays about $600 in child support a month and it is a struggle--but we do it and we have two young children. No matter what my stepson ( i only label him as such for the sake of this forum) needs or wanted we have all done our best to get it for him--never asking about the $600 that his mother recieves.
5 days ago my step son called and asked for some money--we explained that things were going to a little tight until this weekend--we had to get my car repaired...(by the way despite my screen name I am a high school academic trainer)/ We let him know that we would get money to him this weekend.
Then the phone calls and emails start--his mother is flipping out saying how sorry we are--and that he will never have to ask us for SH!t again...she is mad b/c the CS order ends in December---
we already agreed that we would continue the support--going to directly to him----She CLOWNED on the phone making threats and what not!!
Can anyone explain what her problem is?
The BM in question and I have know each other for about as long.
THey have a 19 year old son in college. I love him like he is my own. I have never been one for the drama. He calls me when he needs anything and I never hesitate to help...
My hubby pays about $600 in child support a month and it is a struggle--but we do it and we have two young children. No matter what my stepson ( i only label him as such for the sake of this forum) needs or wanted we have all done our best to get it for him--never asking about the $600 that his mother recieves.
5 days ago my step son called and asked for some money--we explained that things were going to a little tight until this weekend--we had to get my car repaired...(by the way despite my screen name I am a high school academic trainer)/ We let him know that we would get money to him this weekend.
Then the phone calls and emails start--his mother is flipping out saying how sorry we are--and that he will never have to ask us for SH!t again...she is mad b/c the CS order ends in December---
we already agreed that we would continue the support--going to directly to him----She CLOWNED on the phone making threats and what not!!
Can anyone explain what her problem is?
