so done

[PS]

I am giving up on the relationship with my husbands baby mama's daughter. She is literally a psycho path and i dont want her in my life anymore, she tried to ruin our wedding by pretending like she didnt know her daughter was getting picked up ( she was the flower girl, big mistake )in the afternoon the day of. And since we had our daughter,Emma, she has gotten sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much worse. I think she is jealous of our marriage and our daughter. Whats even worse is that her mother is the same way!!! So its like a double whammy, and i just cant do it anymore. I have done nothing but treat this little girl good and as if she was a part of my family and all i get in return is them attacking me and saying that i hate her and im jealous. Its like, really do you hear yourself???
Btw this child was not made out of love, it was a HUGE MISTAKE!!! The BM didnt want to let my husband go ( they were 17 and 18 at the time ) so she got pregnant on purpose thinking he would stay.

[youknow]

Don't be mad at the daughter she is young and vulnerable and being brainwashed by her mom. It sounds like parental alienation syndrome and the mom is raising her daughter to be as ignorant as her. Pray for both of them.

[therealwife]

PS, I have two stepdaughters, and it is very difficult to keep a balance in the blended family. Unfortunately, most splits involving kids were not done in the most sensitive way, and parents are the foundation of identity for a child, it's a very difficult thing to experience, when your parents split.

Finding a way to achieve a bit of detachment can be healthy, but don't turn negative. It's hard, I understand (one of my stepdaughters is playing my victim, even though she was the one totally out of line, to me, her father AND a mutual friend....yelling and screaming included), but for the sake of your spouse who loves this child, try to stay positive.

[fukallbms]

f**k that lil baby mama in the making. If it were me, she step to me and mine, I would slap the taste outa her mouth. Then beat the shiit out of BM.