Post by triciatenaka on Jul 23, 2011 15:35:11 GMT -5
Ladies, if you're in a relationship with a man who has a child from a previous relationship YOU DO NOT DEAL WITH HIS BABY MAMA, HE DOES!!!!
There's nothing more embarassing than a woman who can't let a man go. She's aware of the fool she's making out of herself and the worst thing you can do is join her. Most situations I've observed, the baby mama falls short in many different aspects, including lack of respect for themselves. Men respond better to women who respect themselves, in other words, he's upgraded and is now with you. That's saying A LOT, enough for you not to be affected by her.
When a baby mama becomes irrate and try to prohibit your man from seeing his child, it is his duty to go through the court. Simple as that, the courts will handle her if she denies him time with the kid once agreements have been made. If she harrass and threaten you, handle it like you would with a stranger. Get the police involved, file a restrainging order. The pettiness can indeed be ignored if you trully do not want to particpate in drama. In fact I consider all petty acts comitted by the baby mama to be a coping mechanism they'll eventually get over. Just let the pregnant dog get it off her chest for the time being, I mean you are in a relationship with the reason she's doing all of this.
Furthermore, if your man is indeed A MAN and he witness his baby mama's behavior towards you he will put the pregnant dog in check. Plane and simple. He's the one who had a kid by her, not you. If he allow his baby mama to disrepect you, time to move on.
I see a lot of women are asking advice on how to deal with baby mama drama. You don't, you just do you. If you ever come face to face and there's a confrontation, try to walk away first....at least, lol.
I'm trying to give positive advice because I was once very hateful towards unwed mothers. I never had baby mama drama but I was willing to provoke it just for the simple fact of holding baby mamas in contempt for thier behavior. 
There's nothing more embarassing than a woman who can't let a man go. She's aware of the fool she's making out of herself and the worst thing you can do is join her. Most situations I've observed, the baby mama falls short in many different aspects, including lack of respect for themselves. Men respond better to women who respect themselves, in other words, he's upgraded and is now with you. That's saying A LOT, enough for you not to be affected by her.
When a baby mama becomes irrate and try to prohibit your man from seeing his child, it is his duty to go through the court. Simple as that, the courts will handle her if she denies him time with the kid once agreements have been made. If she harrass and threaten you, handle it like you would with a stranger. Get the police involved, file a restrainging order. The pettiness can indeed be ignored if you trully do not want to particpate in drama. In fact I consider all petty acts comitted by the baby mama to be a coping mechanism they'll eventually get over. Just let the pregnant dog get it off her chest for the time being, I mean you are in a relationship with the reason she's doing all of this.
Furthermore, if your man is indeed A MAN and he witness his baby mama's behavior towards you he will put the pregnant dog in check. Plane and simple. He's the one who had a kid by her, not you. If he allow his baby mama to disrepect you, time to move on.
I see a lot of women are asking advice on how to deal with baby mama drama. You don't, you just do you. If you ever come face to face and there's a confrontation, try to walk away first....at least, lol.
I'm trying to give positive advice because I was once very hateful towards unwed mothers. I never had baby mama drama but I was willing to provoke it just for the simple fact of holding baby mamas in contempt for thier behavior. 
