Post by taaliyah2011 on Sept 22, 2011 15:01:00 GMT -5
I've been talking tio this guy for about a month now and I really...really ...really like him. I founf out he had a son off of Facebook. So I called and and asked him if he had any kids he says " I kind do and don't " I say how is that he tells me that he doesn't know if its his. Now his ex is white so I ask him how old is the little boy he says truthfully he doesn't know . So I say well do he look white or mixed he says HE DON'T KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!! I say well have you seen the baby he said yes and he looks white. I ask him if he was going to find out if the baby was his and he said she keep coming up with excuses to why she dont want to be bothered with him, so I start to think maybe its not his. He said she blocked him off her fb page changed her number /adress and theres no way of getting in contact with her, and that talking about this /her for that matter stress him out so I left it alone. His ex lives in Oregon and we stay in cleveland so im not worried about him cheating on me with her. Me just wanting to see what type of person she is I looked her up on fb and the lil boy is the cutest and looks just like his dad. The problem is, when we first started talking he mas it seem as if they broken up at the beginning of this year. So we go to the store and the store clerk calls him a player because he just had a girl on there two months ago, he plays it off like you must be talking about the white girl man that was more then two months ago. So he end up telling me that the last time he seen her was in may. Not only that he likes rock music and every song he listens to in a love song of some sort and I can tell that he really feel the songs because of the emotions that comes out and it makes me feel weird, but when I play one its " I ain't trying to hear no love songs they make think of her" like wtf!!!!!!!!!! I find out that he still use myspace and has a pic of him and her as his profile pic but I cant play love songs cause they make him think about her WOW!!!!!!! I found a pair of panties in his room and also a couple of long blonde hair in his bed EWWWW I dont know if he knows that the panties were there or not but the shot really pisses me off cause now im starting to believe what the clerk said about her being there two months ago. He went to college in Arizona and tells me all about his trips and come to find out recently they were all with her, he says that they were just friends and a group of them would save money and take trips SO NOW I HATE HEARING ABOUT HIS STORIES ABOUT HIS TRIPS......he tells me that he was madly in love with this girl and how its hard for him to want to get close to someone WHICH. I UNDERSTAND......he tells me she played him numerous of times but when I ask what happened he gets upset and doesn't want to talk about which makes me upset because if were in a relationship I need to know how you feel about certain things and and be able to understand where your coming from. So yesterday he gets an email from her, now I dont know what it said but all he told me was it was about his son but when he told his cousin she write him some bs. Thus might sound weird but it seem like he was kinda excited that she contacted him, he even told me that he thought he was gone be the one to contact her first WOW!!!!!!!!!! then he goes to stay that he hasn't talked to her in three months! ?!?!?!?!/!?!?!?!? And that he dont have nothing nice to say to her cause of how she played her hand she even called and he hung up on her but im more then shore that if I wasn't sitting right next to him he would have talked to her............I dont know what type of relationship they had and I get shut out when I ask hes coming around a lil now but idle how to feel about thus whole ordeal SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO.......I believe he just needs time to get over her but in the process how should I conduct myself......I feel myself drifting away from him HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
