Post by Jill B on Jan 2, 2012 5:42:35 GMT -5
I have been with my husband for almost 8 years, his daughter was only 3 when we met. His BM was the typical harpy, calling at all hours demanding him to come over and "visit and hang out with us," come over if the power went out, drop off extra money for food, help her move. After 6 months I slowly starting putting my foot down if he chose to stay with me. The visitations dropped off more and more, until the BM wouldn't let the child visit at all. Last year we ponied up almost 3K for a lawyer, and after two court visits, we got visitation solidified. We found out the BM has been stripping on Tiny Chat and rolling around drunk on Youtube after drinking four loco, all things which proved her to be of questionable parenting skills, but none of it mattered as the kid was not seen in the video. We have seen my husbands daughter only 3x since court, and its typically because she knows we have gifts for her (the apple doesn't fall far from the tree, like mother like daughter), she has given back the court appointed cell phone we bought her cuz it "made mom mad" and we don't see the kid. We refuse to spend more on a lawyer, and as everyone here knows, the women hold the cards. My husband will lose his license if he is late one month on child support ($800.00 a mth for ONE kid, and my husband waits tables for a living!), or be put in jail, but she is just told "let him see his child on his visitation days." And she doesn't. There is NO jail time, license lost, or real legal recourse for her actions. Sadly, my husband is not emotionally detaching from his child, his child calls her mothers boyfriend "Dad" and the BM asked in court if we could legally make that the case, as she doesn't want the child to call her bio dad "Dad." Baby mamas are disgusting, she has no sense of responsibility to what she has procreated, she doesn't work, and states "you need to take care of your child." Mind you she has had TWO more children out of wedlock since, and still no ring. Baby mama in 2012, its a freakin career ladies and gentlemen! I have two beautiful daughters with my ex, we co-parent in a non-combative way, and my poor new husband looks at my situation incredulous that decent women do exist that don't look at their children as a valuable $$ commodity. Nice job non working BM's, quite the hustle ya got there. Now then, selling your scam to responsible working members of society, good luck!!! This BM is a product of her own BM who did similar, she learned the tricks of the trade from her own mother. I fear my step daughter is learning the same scam: Trap man + have baby + leave man = pay check for life.
