What Made The BM a BM?

[wbmama]

So, what's their story? You DH and his beloved CBM. How did they come to be?


Here's mine. My DH was recently divorced, kids went with ex, he was in a bad place (down in the dumps). He met this chick thru his work. He thought she was pretty and she was very nice. She helped him out w/ lots of things (fed him, helped him with his kids) etc. He was never really attracted to her. She said she was on the pill. They were together for 6 months or so. She would beg him for sex. Only once when they were having sex did she say,"You can c*m inside of me-that's why I'm taking the pill." So he did. That was the last time they had sex. They broke apart.....until he got the "I'm preg" phone call. He hung around thru the pregnancy. When the baby was born, he moved in with her. It lasted less than 3 months. He left town. Said she went crazy. Thus began her Raine of madness. I came along 2 years later. When we were dating he warned me - told me she was crazy. I believed he was exaggerating. Now I know he was truthful. Every word. She saw their relationship as a wonderful romance and she believed if she got preg he would stay with her.

Now, keep in mind, that I met DH when the baby was 2. And the drama hadn't slowed down for him one bit.

[destini1969]

Wow, this post should be interesting.

To my understanding my DH (darling honey) said it was more of an "I'm Bored Hit It" type of sex thing. They got busy one day and the condom broke. Later she told him she was pregnant and he told her he didn't want the child and she did. He tried to stay with her to make it work for the sake of the child.

Of course there are two sides to every story, she told me they were together (that whole love thing) and they didn't wear protection and she became preganant. She said he didn't want the child, but she didn't want to terminate the pregnancy.

He advised me of her being crazy, but of course I thought he was exaggerating as well because a couple of people that knew him thought she was sane. (they realized later she was crazy) I realized within the first conversation with her she was CRAZY AS HECK!

She used the child as a pawn since the child was born and continues even more so because DH is in a relationship. She told me last week that it was my fault that my DH wasn't seeing his child and I could "encourage" him to basically play by her rules. Now, what kind of fool do really think I am? I would NEVER go against my DH for her or anyone else for that matter. Trust it's been tried/tested. Not gonna happen!

Interesting to see what my DH's response to this will be! ) He will probably say that "B**TCH is crazy like I said before."