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Post by lovejones08 on May 3, 2008 11:10:34 GMT -5
 :-/OK ladies and gents...I have I disagreeumptions why BM does this but what say you? I'm out having a good time with some friends at a little grown n sexy shindig (however everybody there was not grown or sexy) Anyway, BM was there and I didn't realize until I was chatting with my girls at our table and felt like 2PAC all eyes on me so I just so happened to turn my head and there i see her and her friends standing upstairs looking down where we were sitting and then when i caught a split sec of an eye with her she turns her head like she wasn't just looking at me (the upstairs part overlooks the downstairs part). It gets better and even more immature..Then not more than 2mins later her and her friends come downstairs (through the big azz crowd) and come stand like 10ft in front of us. HUH? Then what is so d**n sad is that two of the girls can identify me when the are by themselves due to me being frequently recognized and stalked on occassions (this situation is not new it happens all the time) Why would her grown azz friends enterain this type of behavior?? My friends would be like hell naw we're going to stand by her azz for what? After a while one of our songs came on so need less to say she came to see me and WATCH ME DO ME!!! And I showed her azz why he's with me without even acknowledging her presence not looking over at her more than once when she brought her azz to stand over there. One of her friends looked at me and i smile and shook my head like SO SAD (and she then turned her head) and continued enjoying myself. Then ironicly (God works in mysterious ways) one of my friends friend that was with us and I don't even know him forreal (he just knew I was getting married) says d**n girl is that how you keep ya man i see why he is marrying your azz. (He said my DH2B's name) He had to be loud enough for her to hear it because not more than 10 sec later BM tapped her friends and trotted her azz on back to where she was orginally and stood up there still peaking through glass of the balcony at me....LOL What a d**n fool. Questions: Does she not realize how stupid she looks doing that? ( I have him there's nothing to prove to me or show) other than why he is no longer with her simple azz). I now expect this behavior frowm her but, why does her friends join in her stupidity and make themselves look stupid and immature? How is she "dating someone" but standing by me trying make her presence known? Nothing cute about her presence either? What are your thoughts on this matter guys?
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Post by lovejones08 on May 3, 2008 11:12:40 GMT -5
why when you put a**umption into the post it changes it to disagreeumption? maybecause the word has a** in it, but I have used ass and it doesn't change it, what's up with that? Anyway back on the subject.
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Post by Keia1 on May 3, 2008 12:46:52 GMT -5
Some females just want to start drama. That's all.......b*tches are just silly. She probably just wanted to see if you were intimidated by her....or even tripping off her or acknowledged her.
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Post by wbmama on May 3, 2008 13:16:56 GMT -5
I agree with Kia - she was tring to intemidate you. You showed her perfectly by not responding to her stupidness. Now tell us, Love - you were lookin' soooo much hotter than she was that night - RIGHT?
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Post by destini1969 on May 3, 2008 15:05:49 GMT -5
Dang, you called her "simple! LMBO, haven't used that in reference to anyone in a long time. I need to store that in my memory bank.
Some women just can't seem to grow up, maybe when she gets humiliated enough she will face reality. Whether they have a significant other or not, some BM/BD still have that since of entitlement. Thinking the child still makes them entitled to have a connection with you!
To this day I still see it with my divorced mother and father and have experienced it with my ex husband. I don't think that ever goes away unfortunately.
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Post by nomoredrama on May 3, 2008 15:23:25 GMT -5
Lovejones, how old is she? She sounds like she is VERY young. Why is she hating on you? You did not put a gun to his head, make him dump her, and ask you to marry him, so she needs to just get over it like your DH2B is way over her.  Like Destini said, some women just never grow up. Your DH2B probably recognized that and that's why he's not with her. |
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Post by downazzchick on May 4, 2008 22:13:41 GMT -5
Hey girl....Glad u were able to get your groove on and make that idot look like a fool all at the same time. Have your fun, but look around at who her friends are. Reguardless if they know you or not you may bump into then on a later date and they may try some nuts for their real friend.
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Post by destini1969 on May 5, 2008 10:10:52 GMT -5
That is something to think about! You know they often say birds of a feather flock together. They all appear to be immature so watch your back for them all.
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Post by Keia1 on May 5, 2008 20:59:43 GMT -5
Some people never mature.....they don't see the need to; poor simple minded fools. You keep your integrity don't stoop to her level.....always act like the prize you are.
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Post by lovejones08 on May 6, 2008 9:59:21 GMT -5
All of them are cowards....I have run into a few of the friends in the mall without her and they walk past me giving me one of those "little smiles w/ a bit of embarassment. Wbmama- yes girl! You know it! I am not a conceited person at all and I hate to toot my own horn but d**nit TOOT TOOT!!! That chick ain't got sh*t on me. Put it like this when the song "shawty you a 10" came on she put her hands in the air, so I guess I got like 4 more 10s on her azz if she is a 10... LOL I slay me. And it doesn't matter how much I may not care for a person pretty is pretty and if she was pretty I would have no problem admitting that; however, sadly, she doesn't fall into that category, but I can say that I have seen worse, so I'll give her just pulling an average "C" no plus added to that! I think my DH was strictly looking at her azz because her azz is a little wide doesn't poke out to much, but it's a little wide..LOL
Tellit - her simple ass is in her early thirties c'mon on now!! Can we say ADULT PLEASE!!!!! I have learned long ago that age doesn't have anything on maturity and her azz proves that notion to be true. I look at all of their azzes in the face if the opportunity presents itself! I told you all I had a few run ins with her azz and of course she likes to bring her friends or the baby along so that she can feel secure in her BS, but that one (okay) maybe twice that I snapped and was about to get in her azz it took DH, a friend, the police, and the all mighty Lord to keep me off her azz. You should've saw her face and how she was backing up (nobody holding her everybody on my azz). She doesn't want any of my knucks, but she likes to try me hoping that I will snap one day so she can say I did something to her. WON"T GVE HER THE SATISFACTION especially knowing that she is a coward. A waste of my d**n time!
I'm not studying her azz, sometimes I just don't understand how a grown azz woman can allow herself to look so childish with other folks and in public. I never stoop her level I just LOL at her azz, I worked to hard for what i have today to stoop to her level. I believe that my presence is intriguing to her that she just can't stay away as hard as she tries she just has to see me, wants me to see her (nothing to look at), wants to see why DH is with me! Like the song says, " You wanna see how it's done, then watch me do me!" I don't think she can help herself, I got that HELLA SWAG!!!! LOL LOL LOL!!!! I slay me
My motto for her is from Mary J, Blige - Ain't worry bout you and watcha gone do, I'm a lady so I must stay CLASSY!!! See I won't change my life my life's just FINE FINE FINE FINE FINE FINE WOOOOOO!!!! LOL
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Post by wbmama on May 6, 2008 12:08:59 GMT -5
Lovejones - you're just so lovable!!!!
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Post by destini1969 on May 6, 2008 13:16:10 GMT -5
Lovejones I am LMAO at you! Dang you are funny!
I wonder why BM/BD are interested in what the current mate looks like, I don't get it. I have no desire to know what any of my DHs prior women look like, just not that interested. That perhaps goes back to a level of insecurity.
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Post by awsomalx on May 6, 2008 13:57:34 GMT -5
I have no desire to know what any of my DHs prior women look like, just not that interested. ............ cough.... bull........ cough... shyt..... cough,cough |
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Post by destini1969 on May 6, 2008 14:54:41 GMT -5
What! Awsomalx! I have no desire to know what your ex's look like, it's not that serious for me! They're you're ex's for a reason!
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Post by lovejones08 on May 6, 2008 16:08:38 GMT -5
HAHAHH! Ya'll are funny!! Awsomalx you need to stop it right now.....you must be that fi Destini because he keeps coming back for more isn't that right!!! Just tell him what I taught you girl!!! Your comment was all wrong!!! When he refutes your comment you say WHAT??!!! I ride d*cks i don't wear them!!! NOW AWSOM....do what?? SAY IT LOUD AND PROUD DESTINI!!!! If the opportunity presents itself; I would check the old or new broad  out; but I wouldn't be breaking my neck or trying to stand by her just to see. Not that d**n deep!! I have seen a nice hand full of the chicks DH dealt with and lawd have mercy some I'm like what de hell was he thinkin' It was like one that was a very pretty woman, but the rest umm umm umm. Some were not blessed in the face, but they have a nice figure. Many of them even if they weren't that cute that had a booty that was wide or that poked out!! He is an azz man for sure!!! Now he has all in one baby wide (not too wide) LOL!! poked out ass with a cute face!!! TOOT TOOT!!! okay I'm done!! and awsomlax no you can't see!!!! LOL just pulling your leg. I love ya'll too, you are my new never scene family. I well I just saw my cousin Destini and dem!! |
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:-/OK ladies and gents...I have I disagreeumptions why BM does this but what say you?
out; but I wouldn't be breaking my neck or trying to stand by her just to see. Not that d**n deep!! I have seen a nice hand full of the chicks DH dealt with and lawd have mercy some I'm like what de hell was he thinkin' It was like one that was a very pretty woman, but the rest umm umm umm. Some were not blessed in the face, but they have a nice figure. Many of them even if they weren't that cute that had a booty that was wide or that poked out!! He is an azz man for sure!!! Now he has all in one baby wide (not too wide) LOL!! poked out ass with a cute face!!! TOOT TOOT!!! okay I'm done!! and awsomlax no you can't see!!!! LOL just pulling your leg.