Post by hobbit on Apr 9, 2013 10:54:27 GMT -5
My boyfriend and his BM had been in an on and off relationship before he met me and he always assured me he would never go back to her coz they fight all the time and he felt they were not compatible. Fast forward to now one year later BM got dramatic when she realised he had moved on with me and begun trying to win him back. This put a strain on our relationship and i became overly jealous and complaining endlessly as he did not do anything to assure me i felt as if he was entertaining her, and he kept saying my insecure behaviour is pushing him away from me but he still did nothing!! She would call him whenever and keep texting him all these quotes on making love work blah blah and i told him she wouldnt just keep doing all this if he didnt respond or lead her on in some way. I finally lost it and left, though he begged n begged me not to saying he truly wanted to be with me n not her. His words had no action he did nothing to make me feel secure about her. 2 days after i left him i hear he is back with her and i am just wondering is this a sort of rebound or another cycle of on and off for him and his BM? I am sure not looking to go back or nothing but i am curious to know how this plays out was i not seeing the real picture?? Wasnt i justified in feeling the way i felt and his inaction? Appreciate ur opinions ladies and gents 
