Post by UnknownAnswers on May 16, 2013 21:29:03 GMT -5
I've known my current boyfriend since 2006. We met in college and we've been platonic friends relationship since. We never talked about being intimate w. Each other ever. We've been there for each other when we each had our own relationships. He had his girlfriends and I've had my boyfriends. His last relationship was with someone he's been with for 3 years. Knew of her for over 10years however recently got in touch right before their relationship. He got her pregnant and proposed to her. Anyway they broke up in Dec 2012 and have a soon to be 2 year old together. In March, we were both single and made the decision to be together. April 30, I moved in w him. However, the day before I moved in the ex was visiting him, they had sex and possibly got her pregnant. Not only did he cheat on me, but he might be on baby #2 with her. She obviously hates me (she knows who I am and she's met me before) but he created the situation by lying to the both of us. So he says that (in comparison to her) I perfect for him, I'm his best friend, and he doesn't want to lose me. She still wants to be with him and claims she's pregnant and wants to move to the same city for her pregnancy. I dont know what to do or think. I'm in the house so I shouldn't care right? I know she's going to do what she's going to get what she wants, but I think he's strong enough to set boundaries with her and respect me. I don't know what to say because he wants to be there for his possible children which is absolutely fine, but how am I to find happiness for myself? They didn't have to get over the situation because everything was happening so fast.
**moved from NY to be with him and she lives in another state until she moves to where we are now.
**moved from NY to be with him and she lives in another state until she moves to where we are now.