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[truthbtold]

"In my opinion, not likes anybody gives a dam, truthbhold, you are entirely too harsh and reckless with people feelings but what should one expect from a person who don’t give a dam about anyone but his/her self."


What a joke and what are you even on about? Do you know me? Another tired resident pseudo-psychologist. With the craziness that some people post, y'all have nothing to say about that behavior (clearly the focus is only on the BM), but continue to take umbrage with the way that I deliver my opinion. Please. Whatever. Grow the heck up, man.




"As a matter fact, the other site is so cut throat, I don’t even go over. I can’t even remember what the name of it but some of the members around here know the name. They would love truthbtold over there."



I'm sure, thanks for the invite

[truthbtold]

dlar wrote,

"With everyone's thoughts coming through, I am glad to say that my view of Truthbtold's attitude is NOT just me attacking her and being nit picky, If other people see it then it clearly is something that has been on the mind of others besides me. Ive been on this sit for YEARS and have changed my name which I believe truthbtold has done too bc I remember this nasty attitude from years back but under another name. Anyway...there are helpful people on this site that have an opinion or advice worth hearing so hopefully nagative attitudes dont scare some people off."



Oh my goodness, I am quite a few years removed from junior high school and this is very similar to what would go on during a time like that, but dare I insult junior high schoolers Oh and sorry, I am new to this site, so whoever you think I am from years back, I am not. On a message board, to seriously create a post first speaking generally when all the time it was clearly aimed towards myself, complaining about the way I give advice is beyond the realm of my comprehension. Just silly and ridiculous.


"but I was scrolling through posts just to see if truth's behavior has always been nasty and it HAS BEEN for the most part, I even came across a post where she was coming at YOU foul! I can copy and paste it if that doesnt ring a bell. Really who cares"


Just wow. Clearly, you care. You are truly affected by this and I feel sorry for you. I am getting quite bored with all of the nonsense.

[dlalr5]

Truth-You arent NEW to the site...you've been posting under this name almost a year now. So UMMMMM anyway, we're starting to get too far into this but bottom line, are you starting to get a taste of your own medicine. You come at people sideways all day but seems you cant handle it when the tables are turned

[truthbtold]

Nov 6, 2013 12:59:16 GMT -5 @dlalr5 said:

Truth-You arent NEW to the site...you've been posting under this name almost a year now. So UMMMMM anyway, we're starting to get too far into this but bottom line, are you starting to get a taste of your own medicine. You come at people sideways all day but seems you cant handle it when the tables are turned

Ummm....I joined April of this year, that is still relatively new (well, coming from the person that spelled insight as insite). A taste of my own medicine? Wow, delusions of grandeur much. And the nonsense I referred to was inclusive of the BMD stuff as well. Ha! Three pages in from a post you created and now we are starting to get too far into this? LOL, typical clown. I am going to continue to let you have this, as you so desperately need some sort of "validation." Po' thang.

[jaylady999]

Here's the thing.I am the same person online as I am offline. I don't entertain drama. It takes a whole lot to get my panties all bunched up. However you say Truth came at me from an earlier thread is obviously no issue today. Same with BM. We will either be cool or we won't, but I won't do drama. Again, I believe Truths words here are affectong y'all so much because 1. She's not high fiving and cosigning y'alls self inflicted drama, and 2. most of what she is saying is hitting home for you and y'all dont like the way she is saying it. I agree with everything she is saying, in fact I have lived my situation BMD free for years based totally off what she's trying to tell y'all. Grow up and get past the delivery to hear the words. That's it That's all.

[ladyqb]

I come here some days just to get a good laugh at sh*t like this. Most of the time, I don’t have anything to write or say. I know the ladies will figure it out because I watched women come here overcome their issues and return to the forum with great stories. I don’t have any drama, no DB, no BM or for that matter no other type of drama either; therefore, I come in here just to get a reality check. I am all caught on my DVR episodes of “Real Housewives of Atlanta” so unfortunately this is next best thing and I don’t have any friends that will entertain such nonsense.

But if you, Truth, feels better or bigger than someone else by putting them down then you are one sick individual. You don’t need to be a doctor or a scholar to figure out that some real mental illness for a** and yes, I am very afraid of you. I hope you don’t my city, cuz you been shot of some sh*t around here. Oh, I forgot, I live in the Nation’s Capital, they used to dealing with crazies like you around here. This will definitely be last time I write on this topic cuz I am intelligent enough to know that you can’t deal ignorance. Get me some popcorn and wait to see you crazy a**on tv. Tell all my friends, I know her, she is that crazy chick on BMD I told y’all about. Truth, I like people like you, y’all really keep me crackin up and keep me coming back to this forum just for some good laughs.

On a more serious note, I hate it when woman attack woman and I bet the majority of women in here are African American. Unfortunately as a species and probably as a race, we still haven’t grown past this silliness. I guess, the stereotype, “Always Angry”, of the Black woman is true. It a dam shame we are still big a** cats. This is a sad day in America.

I am done. I gotta go anyway… I got a loving family, husband and children, to attend to.

[truthbtold]

Nov 6, 2013 16:52:35 GMT -5 ladyqb said:

I come here some days just to get a good laugh at sh*t like this. Most of the time, I don’t have anything to write or say. I know the ladies will figure it out because I watched women come here overcome their issues and return to the forum with great stories. I don’t have any drama, no DB, no BM or for that matter no other type of drama either; therefore, I come in here just to get a reality check. I am all caught on my DVR episodes of “Real Housewives of Atlanta” so unfortunately this is next best thing and I don’t have any friends that will entertain such nonsense.

But if you, Truth, feels better or bigger than someone else by putting them down then you are one sick individual. You don’t need to be a doctor or a scholar to figure out that some real mental illness for a** and yes, I am very afraid of you. I hope you don’t my city, cuz you been shot of some sh*t around here. Oh, I forgot, I live in the Nation’s Capital, they used to dealing with crazies like you around here. This will definitely be last time I write on this topic cuz I am intelligent enough to know that you can’t deal ignorance. Get me some popcorn and wait to see you crazy a**on tv. Tell all my friends, I know her, she is that crazy chick on BMD I told y’all about. Truth, I like people like you, y’all really keep me crackin up and keep me coming back to this forum just for some good laughs.

On a more serious note, I hate it when woman attack woman and I bet the majority of women in here are African American. Unfortunately as a species and probably as a race, we still haven’t grown past this silliness. I guess, the stereotype, “Always Angry”, of the Black woman is true. It a dam shame we are still big a** cats. This is a sad day in America.

I am done. I gotta go anyway… I got a loving family, husband and children, to attend to.

A good portion of your rant was incomprehensible. Nonetheless, yikes, you have totally become unhinged. The leaps you have taken.........my goodnes, you have made a complete and utter fool of yourself . Wow, a sad day in America? You must not have experienced real tragedies, injustices, hatred, etc... Get help and take good care, okay?

[lovely24]

Why are u guys giving truth sooooo much energy. Apparently this person has no couth. If you don't feed a plant it won't grow... You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Ladies the focus is being taken off the matter at hand. Obviously this person is getting a orgasm off your responses...This person lacks the analytical ability to understand a step by step logical simulation of a particular situation n mature conversation...meaning, it's not what you say, it's how it's being said. Her delivery is rude and obnoxious...i don't believe these women expect to be pacified, I believe they have genuine and serious reason for coming here, reaching out for help. I have learned a lot from a friend of mines whom experience BMD, her car was keyed, tires slashed, windows broken and eventually it turned physically violent. Some of these posters are new to the site and are just looking for legitimate answers; not a beat up!!! Truth appears to be very educated n it's sad to say, but she comes off very ignorant. Although a person may not know and/or seen you in person, your energy and vibe can be felt. You might want to take your own advice...it's better to be quiet, then to open your mouth and remove all doubt. Good day!!!!