smh...I need to vent for a moment and....

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hello all...I really just need to vent and get my frustration out so what better place to do so Tonight my husband spoke on the phone with his daughters as he has been doing lately. I completely stay put of the whole ordeal since I finally understood how necessary that was of me in order to keep peace and rid our lives of the BMD (hopefully anyway, been workin pretty well so far). The BM has dropped a few obvious jabs but we continue to ignore them. TONIGHT THOUGH!!! ahhhh! my husband asks her to text him their girls' clothing size. This chic actually has the nerve to say "Im not sure about the jeans, it changes so fast and she got your ass.

WHAT?! ..... ladies am I being a whiner? Even he was taken back, Im like this ho is trying to run game or be slick with my husband. I know shes trying to see what he' ll say bc she probably hopes he'll jump on that gesture and return the flirtation. i am still ignoring her but inside im heated! ugh

[jaylady999]

It is one of those SMH at the patheticness of BM. It would have irritated me a little bit too, but his reply back to her would have been way more important to me than her nonsense. How did he reply back?

[truthbtold]

Nov 23, 2013 22:28:46 GMT -5 @bbrrr5 said:

hello all...I really just need to vent and get my frustration out so what better place to do so Tonight my husband spoke on the phone with his daughters as he has been doing lately. I completely stay put of the whole ordeal since I finally understood how necessary that was of me in order to keep peace and rid our lives of the BMD (hopefully anyway, been workin pretty well so far). The BM has dropped a few obvious jabs but we continue to ignore them. TONIGHT THOUGH!!! ahhhh! my husband asks her to text him their girls' clothing size. This chic actually has the nerve to say "Im not sure about the jeans, it changes so fast and she got your ass.

WHAT?! ..... ladies am I being a whiner? Even he was taken back, Im like this ho is trying to run game or be slick with my husband. I know shes trying to see what he' ll say bc she probably hopes he'll jump on that gesture and return the flirtation. i am still ignoring her but inside im heated! ugh

Actually, I didn't take it as flirtation just her being stupid; trying to be insulting I think. Obviously, no need for your husband to indulge the nonsense. Can he just wait until he picks them up to assess their current sizes? I know it is irritating, but just ignore it. I don't really see a reason to be heated, all things considered unless, I'm missing something. Pick and choose what's really worthy of an ulcer.

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well he didnt respond at all bc he was like wtf? didnt want her to even feel as if he noticed the stupid comment. he could have gotten the sizes when he gets them, but.....BM wont let him get them or see them unless he goes to her house and he wont do that. either way, thanks for all your feedback, i needed to vent on that one! it did irritate me for a moment! Im just glad my husband deals with her BS with maturity thanks again!!

[jaylady999]

You are golden then. My DH would have responded the same way. ;D