"BABY MAMA MENTALITY"

[Keia1]

So awsoalx.................what do you mean by baby mama mentality? How are you SO sure that I have one?

[destini1969]

Hey Keia1, I THINK Awsomalx isn't going to respond to your post. I have copied/pasted what he said in a different post regarding your thought pattern. He's basically saying you're not a logical person, please read below:

Trust me, save yourself the energy Ngoodman. That Keia1 chick is a "baby momma" and if you have one, you understand just how little logic they seem to possess. Do what I do with her and other "baby momma" mentality type of folk................IGNORE their post (not worth the enrgy to type a reply)

[bgoodman]

i get that one. have yal read her sh*t, she is the prime example of what everybody on here is dealing with. she playing victim to the fu*cking choices she made in her life.

And keia1 nobody gives a d*mn about you being in school unless it's going to help you get off welfare. maybe then we will care because our tax dollars are going to your crazy as*. and i know i ain't the only one that feels this way, probably the only one that will tell you.

[Keia1]

Lol, I figured he wouldn't.........he's on here himself because he made a bad choice and has BM drama.....as do you too ngoodman....funny how people choose to attack other people when their mad because they have to pay the piper. LOL Awsomax is just chicken..........bashing BM's because his is making his life miserable. Awosomalx..........I"m not your BM........save your attitude for her........I just called you out cause I knew you wouldn't respond...........how predicatable....just like a baby daddy........LOL.

Ngoodman for the record honey, own house, own car, will be an RN and PAID very soon, mixed, dress fly, cute son, cs on time everytime.............good man that loves my son......Both parents well off financially. Your opinion of me doesn't matter........I'm well on my way to being above you. Ya girl always comes out on top....you betta ssk somebody LOL.

[destini1969]

Keia1, you didn't call Awsomalx out, he's not responding to you because of your ignorance in which I will soon follow suit! You're just as predictable as his BM. I wish you well in your future endeavors and hope things get better for your child.

[just2beme]

Keia1, you talk much mess don't you. LOL.

I am not mad at you girl. Keep doing you. ;)You have got to think the most of yourself because you are your strongest advocate.

You said that the BD's child support is on time every month and he is a good man who loves his child. Then there should be NO drama, right. Or, if there is drama, you should put your child's needs first and reduce the drama. I noticed in your posts that you place a lot of focus on how much child support you receive each month. Don't let the child support amount be your focus. Instead, focus on your child. Let your good BD who pays his child support on time every month see his child that he loves without interference from you. Don't worry about him seeing his grandmom and his aunt. Your BD's mom & sister do not have to like you but I promise you, they will love your child. And again, your child is WHO matters.

But keep doing you. Just don't forget about your child when you are doing you.

[memyslfni]

The bm mentality is was gets woman in the predicament that they are in. Too busy playin "whose the bi!*h now" and not enough focus on the child. The Sh*t aint no game. Your playin with the life of a young child that had nothing to do with your madness towards the bd. The problem is bm's steady beggin for CS but play cat and mouse with the child(ren). FYI BM's: WHEN UR URGES STRIKE TO PLAY THIS GAME WITH BD, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE THINK BACK TO THE TIME WHEN YOU WERE A CHILD AND IF IT WAS OF ANY IMPORTANCE FOR YOUTO HAVE YOUR MOTHER AND FATHER IN YOUR LIFE regardless of the mishaps bm and bd should be going through.

[destini1969]

That was very well said memyselfni! Some BMs don't understand it's about the child and not the failed relationship between BD/BM. I constantly have to bring that to the BM's attention. She is more concerned about DHs relationship than the child!

I can only shake my head and think about the child, poor thing.

[gemmani]

Wow....women like that make are pathetic. Reading her stupidity makes me happy I'm not her. In the end, nothing else matters but the type of life you lived and how much love you shared. She has an ugly, vindictive soul. Oh well, God loves everyone.

[memyslfni]

Just recently my brother announced that he has a new gf and guess what? He is now banned from his 2 1/2 year old sons life...Its funny how just a month ago he was man material and now he's not good enough to be a father because he has someone new in his life..Gotta laugh at that one.. The typical jealous bm mentality.

[destini1969]

Ouch, that sucks! Poor thing, his battle is just now beginning! At least you will be able to share with him some of the antics the BM will try to pull!

[memyslfni]

Actually he is another hard head with a soft a$$. This son is actually his fourth with his third bm, moving onto his fourth if he doesnt slow it down a notch. I'm pretty sure he saw it coming...

[nomoredrama]

4 kids with 3 BMs. Your brother is going to be paying child support for the rest of his life. Well, hopefully one of those children will be a comfort to him in his old age.

[youknowwhatitis]

A product of bad parenting.. he obviously is unable to make good decisions he probably should seek out counseling.

[destini1969]

So are you saying it's his parent's fault because he chose to have 4 kids and 3 different BMs? He made the decision to sleep with those women, not his parents. As parents you can only guide your child in the direction that lines up with your morales/values and beliefs.

Does that mean you are a product of bad parenting because you chose to have your son out of wedlock?