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Post by nomoredrama on May 12, 2008 19:03:05 GMT -5
I was just thinking this morning while watching my DH interact with our children, it is a shame that he can't interact with his other child on a regular basis. Distance and the BM's ignorance has prevented him from having meaningful contact. SD is 14,so I don't know if they can ever develop a close father & daughter relationship. Every year that they don't see each other is detrimental. Such a shame but not for lack of him trying to be in his child's life.  |
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Post by jusdntundstn on May 12, 2008 20:10:58 GMT -5
Tellit these selfish bm's just dont realize what they got comin to em later on as their children become old enough to pick and choose who kept it real and who didnt. That it was their mama that kept em from havin a relationship with their father. Thats karma baby. Uh Uh Uh Its a cryin shame.
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Post by lovejones08 on May 13, 2008 1:37:43 GMT -5
i agree justnt
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Post by destini1969 on May 13, 2008 11:25:22 GMT -5
It is such a shame. Like I said in an earlier post, please keep your documents to show SD later that it wasn't her father that made it impossible to develop a relationship.
My father DECIDED on his own not to be a part of my youth. I forgave him when I turned 25 (ooo so long ago) and boy did I put him through h*ll in the process.
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Post by nomoredrama on May 14, 2008 21:35:08 GMT -5
I have a file of letters, emails, court documents, and other things to show SD. What is sad about this situation is that DH used to relate to SD like he relates to our children. Even after not seeing her dad for 3 years, when she finally saw him, it was like they had only been apart for a week. SD was all over her dad. And, you know that the BM did not let DH & SD have an uninterrupted 2-DAYS visit together...SD & DH had not seen one another in 3 years. BM kept calling & interrupting the visit like DH was going to kidnap the little girl or something. She is so pathetic!
BM claims that she is coming home this year to visit. It will be 3 years again since DH & SD have seen each other...I am hoping BM does visit this year for my DH & his child's sake. SD is not an adult yet. There is still time for them to reconnect.
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Post by destini1969 on May 15, 2008 21:11:54 GMT -5
I hope she gets to visit as well, the child and BD really need to reconnect.
The most difficult thing for me in this situation is to sit back and watch BM withhold the child from DH. My heart goes out to him because I can see his frustration and anger. Being that the child is the spitting image of him, she is just as upset and angry.
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Post by downazzchick on May 15, 2008 21:52:45 GMT -5
I hope when she finally gets to visit he can interact with all the kids at once. BM should be tired of the child by now she should just let him have his child. That would be too much like right!
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