tellitlikeitreallyis
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Post by tellitlikeitreallyis on May 25, 2008 20:23:09 GMT -5
Why is it that BM and BD drama always ends up happening. One person always attempts to spite the other and the kids end up losing in the end. What can be done to prevent the kids from losing because of some adults immaturity, hurt feelings or lack of responsibility. Suggestions?
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Post by memyslfni on May 25, 2008 20:37:46 GMT -5
My suggestion is to be considerate of the childs overall needs..and to take what ever it is that the other parent may have to offer..without judgement.
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Post by nomoredrama on May 25, 2008 21:14:18 GMT -5
I don't know if I should be flattered or offended that someone used my nickname. This is not my post you guys.
In a perfect world, each parent would put the child's needs above their own. Each parent would understand that a child does not give the a person a 'right' to interfere with or dictate the other person's life. The custodial parent would understand that a child is not a paycheck but a responsibility. The non-custodial parent would understand that children cost money to raise. It is not the child's fault that the NCP has to pay the child support so the child should not suffer.
If parents could understand this, more than half of the drama would be prevented and we would have much more healthier children.
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Post by youknowwhatitis on May 25, 2008 21:32:38 GMT -5
Very good post tellit...you go girl!
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Post by lovejones08 on May 26, 2008 9:26:22 GMT -5
lol...tellit you know you're the real tell it, but d**n how are we supposed to seperate the two? Okay Tellit#1
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