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Post by ty1981 on Sept 18, 2008 12:31:57 GMT -5
So, banana cream pie went on a rampage one week about how fat I was. I got on the scale and sure enough I had gained some weight....fiancee didnt care....I went from 135 to 150 over the summer. For those who don't know we has a bit of a tragic summer( his father died, both my grandmothers,) I don't work in the summer and we spent about 6 wks going back and forth between states and houses, I was totally out of my routine. I am a 5'7 and a half so don't get me wrong I am still fine at 150 but it's just not my usual. So I buckled down, ot back in the gym, school has started so I'm always moving....within a couple of weeks I'm down to 132. Just wanted to show that you can find a silver lining in their lunacy....lol.
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 18, 2008 12:52:30 GMT -5
;D good for you! and you know its all jealousy, cuz i dont know where she lives that 150lbs on any height is fat. pure hatrad i tell ya  i am about 155lbs at 5'4 and i know i'm fine. hubby loves the booty ;D but congrats for you, since its not weight anymore, now BM can move on to other issues she has with you. LOL |
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Post by Chalan on Sept 18, 2008 13:15:10 GMT -5
Funny how these BMs care so much about us. LOL BM was very concerned about my weight during my pregnancy, calling me super fat to her BD. Funny since I only gained 5 pounds during those 9 months because I was so sick. My SO had to explain that he was concerned due to my lack of weight gain. I get so tired of the BD having to explain their action to the kids. It will always be something. The present issue concerns fairness. It is unfair that we have two incomes in our household while she only has one, yet lives with her parents rent free. Can’t child support be consider another income? ;D
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Post by ty1981 on Sept 18, 2008 13:34:25 GMT -5
I am originally from New Orleans so I like to cook and eat  , even at my smallest weight I have thickness to me....hello i'm from the south . It's just funny to me....I'm always hearing how beautiful I am but BM just finds whatever flaw and magnifies it. I am at home today with a stomach virus today.....just wait i'll lose another 5 lbs and she'll be telling him I'm way too skinny...lol. ;D |
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 18, 2008 13:43:52 GMT -5
Yep it will always be something that the BM isnt liking. Like we really care. LOL.
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Post by ty1981 on Sept 18, 2008 13:53:35 GMT -5
Haterz everywhere I go.....lol. Banana cream pie is 13 yrs older than me....too old to be playing these games.
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 18, 2008 14:19:45 GMT -5
oh she is way too old for that garbage. let us pray.....  |
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Post by gemmani on Sept 23, 2008 9:03:15 GMT -5
I must say, BMD helped me practice patience and understanding. I understand that she has major issues and that she resents my place in DH's life. I practice having patience, because i know one day she'll find someone that actually keeps her attention away from us. (Bows head)
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 23, 2008 9:05:55 GMT -5
Imani, she will and yall are gone be happy as two theives in a jewelry store....until they break up. you will feel her wrath even more. LOL. but then you just get used to the cycle. so sad these women are.  |
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Post by doinwatigottado on Sept 30, 2008 16:26:15 GMT -5
gemmani,
I am with you on that front!! I pray she finds someone soon. Last time she was in a relationship, she was nowhere to be found!! I thought I had died and gone to heaven. LOL. Too bad it only lasted about a month!
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 30, 2008 17:05:10 GMT -5
((snickers)) yall are bad. LOL ;D
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Post by gemmani on Oct 1, 2008 7:15:14 GMT -5
Ha! BM HAS a bf. Not that it matters much, but I suspect that it would be worse if he wasn't around. I think it's been over a year.
BM used to tell the kids I was ugly............about 1 year before she actually ever saw me.
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Post by Chalan on Oct 1, 2008 7:44:22 GMT -5
I wish that were true in all cases. My BM had a boyfriend but told BD she was waiting for him to get “tired” of running around with other women and come home to her. As for the ridiculous things they tell the kids about someone they never met, I’ve heard it all. Fat a**, ugly, ghetto, stupid. Good thing BD loves ALL those qualities. ;D
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Post by gemmani on Oct 1, 2008 7:57:54 GMT -5
Wow, that's exactly what my BM is waiting for, too. She thinks he's just out "sowing his oats" and that he'll definitely come back to her, come back "home". I guess us being married kinda throws a wrench in those plans, huh?
I'm starting to think these women live in fairytale land. Do any of them live in reality?
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Post by Chalan on Oct 1, 2008 8:02:36 GMT -5
I’m guessing not! Marriage simply is an obstacle they can over come. LOL They take keeping hope alive to a whole new level.
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, even at my smallest weight I have thickness to me....hello i'm from the south 
