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Post by girlfriendandbm on Feb 5, 2008 22:46:54 GMT -5
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 7mths. He has two boys. The bm of his youngest son contacted him excessively. I immediately had a problem and asked to meet her to avoid possible confrontation. He kept telling he didnt want to make a formal introduction because he felt like he would be throwing our relationship in her face. However I had a gut feeling there would eventually be a problem. He accused me of being negative and not being able to understand how two parent could get along for the sake of the child. My bd and I communicate ONLY involving my son. We came back from vacation and we went to pick his son up at his bm house. As soon as we left she called him yelling and screaming. Then she told us to bring his son back. She ended up coming over his house yelling all kind of obscenities outside his apartment. I didnt want to cause confrontation in front of his son so I ignored her completely. However, she is trying to do everything in her power to pursue him.. I am tired of her! He tells me not to allow her to bother me but how do I do that. You would think she would have more respect when I pulled requested her son to come inside the apt when she was screaming in 9 degree weather. It hurts to know a psychotic bm is trying to use her child to manipulate my man. And he doesnt understand why i get so mad...Any Suggestions?
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Post by 05may2007 on Feb 6, 2008 10:53:27 GMT -5
Im my opinion, shes playing the kid card way too much. I had the same thing happen to me with my bf's bm. I tell him that if she really cared about her kids, she would do whats best for them - not her. He needs to know that youre concerned about how it affects his child and that if she doesnt think like an adult - you will! He needs to put her in her place and let her know that its not about him or her..... its about the child. Disrespecting her plays no part in this situation.
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Post by jusdntundstn on Feb 6, 2008 17:57:43 GMT -5
Lets face it these bm's are drama queens. They aint gettin no attention from nobody else so who else better to f!@* with then the bd. Why should he be able to go on with his life. These females need to get a life for real. They disrespecting they own selves with all that drama. B*#!& go on wit yo life. BD dont want you no mo.. I cant wait for this one to call me with some foul words. Ole spread her legs to keep a nigga ass. She will definitely get her feelings hurt if her face not punched in...But its definitely all about respect. If they cant give it why should they get it?
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Post by Insightful1 on Mar 30, 2008 23:51:18 GMT -5
That is a true statement...I Try to treat BM with respect but she does not respect me or DH. I think I'll start giving it to her the way she tries to give it to us. ;D She would lose her mind if I started getting into her financial affairs, who was in her house, pulled her employment records, etc.
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