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Post by 05may2007 on Feb 6, 2008 9:16:59 GMT -5
Well, I've been with my BF 9 months. His BM is incarcerated and is scheduled to be released soon. He's got a little girl with her and whenever shes been out on furlow, they have had lots of drama. He said she said drama. Before she went in, she cheated on him with a close friend of his. When we met, they were still trying to make it work, but he says he couldnt get over that fact. I know she wants him back and she uses her daughter as an excuse to call excessively. With that they go back and forth and Im getting tired of having to just stay out of it because "it has nothing to do with me". Should i stay or should i go? Are they both just using their daughter as an excuse to deal with "old" issues? Im sooooo confused!
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Post by jusdntundstn on Feb 6, 2008 10:48:01 GMT -5
Ooh gyrl you think you got problems now, she is about to touch freedom... make it clear to this dude what you want and if sh@! dont fixed. See ya later. He needs to realize the fact of what she did to him wasnt right. If thats what he wants then he should be with her. If he is goin to continue tryin to be with her, best believe it is only for their daughter. And that poor lil gyrl is just goin to get hurt in the mist of their differences. You are suppose to be his future, so what you say and how you feel should matter. If he cant give you that much RESPECT you dont need him.
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Post by DEE on Mar 14, 2008 21:16:57 GMT -5
Concerned for your safety, I would say go anyway. What was she in jail for? She's obviously a loser and they make the worst BM!! They are totally dependent on the BD and they have nothing else to do but show up and harass everyone. Do yourself a favor and leave that situation. You will be so unhappy if you stay. If you're with him for mainly sexual reasons, then you can love him then leave him (de ja vu?) Just don't try to make this guy marriage material, it won't pan out.
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Post by downazzchick on Mar 29, 2008 0:45:24 GMT -5
Girlfriend, it's been 9 months. Is that long enough for you to sit in silence and say nothing? Do you have time for the he say she say? I guarantee you she will try to get this man once she gets out and then he may crawl right back (for the sake of his daughter). Don't stick around to be disappointed, but if you choose to make sure this is what you want to do.
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Post by wbmama on Apr 3, 2008 5:58:27 GMT -5
Just go Girl. It sounds like a terribly unpredictiable situation. Be concerned 1st for yourself.
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Post by roadrunner on Apr 7, 2008 12:07:18 GMT -5
Yeah I would leave 2.I mean if ur BF cannot assure you that the relations are over btwn. him & the BM except the child thats an alarm.If he is confused its time 4 u to bounce.When u break up with someone and u dont want them anymore you dont get confused u are sure u dont want them right???
Just leave while u still have your dignity.Good luck
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