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Post by Keia1 on Apr 18, 2008 14:47:35 GMT -5
Am I on glue? Or isn't Babymama drama just 2 women fighting over a man? LOL
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Post by wbmama on Apr 18, 2008 15:18:29 GMT -5
Well... I don't see it quite that way....The man's made his choice (in most cases) but the one woman refuses to let go... so I suppose its more about FATAL ATTRACTION!!! LOL
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Post by angelnmo on Apr 18, 2008 15:36:57 GMT -5
Not necessarily. In my case she has no contact with me whatsoever. So I just sit back and watch the drama unfold between him and the BM. And most of the time, no matter what woman the man gets with, the BM will try to start something.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 18, 2008 18:46:27 GMT -5
No, BMD is not two women fighting over a man. In my case, I have him...she doesn't..end of story. BMD is her attempts to undermine his relationship with his child. And, sometimes BMD includes trying to undermine his relationship with me. As you have stated before, BMD is less about the woman in a man's life or money, but the Baby Mama's attempts to drive the man nuts with her antics.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 18, 2008 18:47:29 GMT -5
...It is about the woman trying to get revenge or get even with the man for what the BM perceives he has done to her. Women like myself just get caught in the crossfire.
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Post by lovejones08 on Apr 18, 2008 19:45:53 GMT -5
good answer tellitlikeitis!
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 22:34:23 GMT -5
If the man is making it known to the BM that he has what he wants, then you two shouldn't be fighting anyway. If he's running back and forth b/w the two of you then yes, it is BMD. Just remember, yall had sex with this man so you both know what it is to be physical with him. If he is entertaining the BM, she will still feel like she has it like that PLUS she has his child; which equals to BMD; which equals to two women fighting over a man.
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 21, 2008 22:48:12 GMT -5
When you have devoted yourself to that mans life, you've pretty much devoted yourself to that mans issues and being women we love conversation. Whether its good or bad..we always have an opinion..
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Post by KIA on Apr 22, 2008 0:44:03 GMT -5
i'd agree with tellitlikeitis...
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Post by wbmama on Apr 22, 2008 8:02:53 GMT -5
I'm not fighting over any man - I'm standing beside a man who is fighting for his child.
And once and a while I'm standing up for myself!
So what's wrong with that?
Just cause a woman gave birth doesn't give her the right to treat ANYONE like sh*t.
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Post by destini1969 on Apr 25, 2008 15:53:30 GMT -5
...It is about the woman trying to get revenge or get even with the man for what the BM perceives he has done to her. Women like myself just get caught in the crossfire. Tellitlikeitis really hit home with this comment. My man (BD) and I were discussing this earlier today. Is there anything BD can do to make the BM move on? I know he's hoping that ignoring her works, but thus far it hasn't she continues to call, text, etc. |
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Post by wbmama on Apr 25, 2008 15:56:58 GMT -5
Yeah - the ignoring her game is not always affective. We tried that. Hell, we've tried it all. Now we're at the step back and take a break game. She's schemeing - I'm waiting for something to hit. Its been a whole week since we've heard from her!
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Post by destini1969 on Apr 25, 2008 16:05:28 GMT -5
Thanks for info. We've been ignoring her and all of a sudden THIS WEEK she goes into crazy mode again. This time she came out to (BD) house and left a note on my car. It wasn't threatening but she wanted us to know she knew where we lived.
So do we just sit it out and wait for her next scheme? I know we don't have enough evidence (e-mails, text, etc) compiled to take legal action against her, but I hate re-acting, I am better at being pro-active!
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Post by wbmama on Apr 25, 2008 16:42:47 GMT -5
Man does that sound familiar! I've got emails and texts and phone calls - but nothing quite strong enough. Our BM is CRAZY - however she's smart enough to know how far to go. Her most recent scheme is turning off her home phone and email address. We have a court order that specifically says DH and BM are to communicate via email. She's knows she's wrong. She's above the law or so she thinks.
I have no patience! I want it fixed, over , done, moved on ! With her it is just a waiting game. Everything I've ever done to try to repair anything has failed. She's not gonna change. So, to answer your question -Just keep livin your life and when she strikes - react or not.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 25, 2008 18:08:07 GMT -5
wbmama and destini1969...wait BM out. The BMs will eventually tire of all the bickering and games.
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