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Post by Keia1 on Apr 19, 2008 11:54:38 GMT -5
Advice ladies, ran across an internet website that belongs to the sorority none other than BD's sister is in.......they have her pictures on the page and a guest book to sign in and leave messages.........Would I be the crazy BM if I left a little nasty message about BD's sister on there and how fake she is.........  ?? I know I shouldn't stoop to her level but I think it would be fun. |
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Post by wbmama on Apr 19, 2008 12:22:07 GMT -5
If I were you - I'd leave the sweetest, fakest, dripping sugar message. How can she get pissed? Say something like that, "Sally is my son's auntie and the greatest auntie in the world. She's always been there for us."
If you leave something nasty - you'll give her ammo - if you leave something sweet and fake - she won't be able to fight back.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 19, 2008 14:10:58 GMT -5
I honestly would not leave a message. It would only make you look childish and make it appear as though you devote a lot of time & energy to BD....
BM found out what school I went to...She went on Classmates.com & tried to fill out a profile on me. Dummy spelled my name wrong (first & last name). She thought it was funny (and it was). It was funny that she was so childish, it was funny that she was ignorant (could not spell either my first name or last name)....And, finally, it showed that she was bored, had no life, and devoted a lot of energy and thought towards me...
Sometimes the effect that we desire comes across with the exact opposite result. You have stated that baby daddy's family is drama filled. Why feed into the drama? It only will make you bitter & childish, not his sister.
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Post by downazzchick on Apr 19, 2008 20:08:25 GMT -5
Keia, I wouldn't post any type of message. If you choose to view it do so and move on. I know that you would not want her to violate any space that you have or belittle what you feel is important. Please try not to go there, girlfriend. I know how tempting it could be.
I know you prolly didn't want to hear that, but retaliating with drama gets old after while and later you will feel that it is completely useless against your efforts to lessen the drama.
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 20, 2008 13:27:37 GMT -5
I wouldnt do it, maintain your dignity gurl. NOwadays thats all we got. Not to mention all the Sh!* thats already piled on the plate...
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 20, 2008 15:48:11 GMT -5
Keia, where are u? U always keep the board lively.
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 20:10:34 GMT -5
Some people need to take their own advice...
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 21, 2008 20:16:12 GMT -5
I agree Cloudy. Take your own & handle things like a "mature adult woman"
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 21:54:44 GMT -5
No I believe that you dished that advice first hon...
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Post by downazzchick on Apr 21, 2008 21:55:00 GMT -5
I guess I've been asleep. DID I MISS SOMETHING?
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 21, 2008 21:57:34 GMT -5
downazz, where you been girl. I been tryin to keep the peace herrr.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 21, 2008 22:06:41 GMT -5
You did miss it downazz. Read on...Just a big difference of opinion.
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Post by downazzchick on Apr 21, 2008 22:10:57 GMT -5
I'm like whoa!!!! Yall done threw down!
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 21, 2008 22:15:46 GMT -5
Nah...It ain't that serious. It was only some harmless fun  |
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Post by downazzchick on Apr 21, 2008 22:18:28 GMT -5
LOL! Really now! Somebody got pissed!!!
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