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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 21, 2008 18:34:09 GMT -5
Why can't we all just get along? ;D
Even on the net, 2 women can't help from tearing each other's eyes out. Can't we treat each other with respect without attacking one another? Isn't that what a "mature adult woman" would do?
Ladies, none of us know each other's personal situations, nor do we know one another personally. I try not to pass judgement on any of you. I know what you post is only a small part of what really transpires each day in your lives. I have my opinions about situations but opinions are like a$$holes, we all have one...
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Post by Keia1 on Apr 21, 2008 19:07:15 GMT -5
lol!!!!!!!!! clash of the titans!!!!! For once it's not me!!
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 19:34:21 GMT -5
Thaty's why it's a forum. To express oneself. Some just can't handle it just like BMD situations.
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 21, 2008 20:11:08 GMT -5
Hi Keia, I missed you. Welcome back!
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 21, 2008 20:15:26 GMT -5
Cloudy, you seem a little stressed....It will be alright. It is just not that serious.
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 20:25:13 GMT -5
Not really tellit. But you on the other hand need a serious stress pill...
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 21, 2008 20:25:45 GMT -5
Cloudy gurl, u just cuttin up right now. What is the method to your madness? R u hesitant on sharing ur situation with us? We do know u was married. Gurl let it out, u mad at somebody. It might be some information that can benefit someone else on this board.. we all here to learn from one another. I feel you on the cs bill follows but some are in it for the long run. And I am far from knowing what being married feels like. If a man is gonna help his wife pay HER bills in return for her generosity, thats magic. In tellits case they scratchin each other back. If Im helpin a man pay his cs bill he better d**n well help me with MY Bills. And if we should part, less baggage for the other. For real, take ya bmd wit ya!
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 21:41:07 GMT -5
I just found out that my cuz is paying her DH CS and she is literally robbing Peter to pay Paul. He is letting her do it and I can't understand why. My ex-husband told me to never worry about his CS issues because that is HIS responsibility. He would have nothing at times. He would take PUBLIC TRANSPORTATION or even walk to try to keep his CS paid. If he got laid off, he would say "Well let me park my car b/c my license may be suspended until I find a new gig." He would not ask me to do anything. Of course I would help him stay on his feet by helping with the BASICS but I never had to worry about dealing with his paying the CS. It's just a NO NO in my book.
I am upset because I can't understand why so many women are taking up the slack and fighting these men's battles with the BM. Some men sit back and just let the wives/gf go back and forth with the BM. Then they play sides and talk about the wife to the BM and the BM to the wife. And these women are sitting here arguing and wasting time and energy. Meanwhile BD is sitting somewhere with his feet kicked up boasting to his friends how he has two "brawds" fighting over him. It's entertaining to most BD. I've seen it many times.
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 21, 2008 21:47:04 GMT -5
I understand what your saying to the fullest extent of the DRAMA violation code book!
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 21:52:14 GMT -5
Where can I get that book? If it REALLY exists...
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 21, 2008 21:59:34 GMT -5
Im just tryin to add some humor gurlfriend. These men do try to play both sides thats why its always best to keep a open mind.
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Post by cloudy752001 on Apr 21, 2008 22:03:40 GMT -5
Can you explain this "open mind" a little more?
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Post by nomoredrama on Apr 21, 2008 22:05:30 GMT -5
By "open mind" are you referring to recognizing when the BD is running game?
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Post by jusdntundstn on Apr 21, 2008 22:07:47 GMT -5
Just like "mydadside" said "he gets a kick out of it... ya'll" come on.
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Post by downazzchick on Apr 21, 2008 22:09:24 GMT -5
Oh my ladies, ladies, ladies.......Y so much anger?
We have all agreed that we should accept each others advice and if we don't like it we don't take it....Y the personal attacks?
We all have too man other things to deal with to sink ourselves to this level.....We can never grow if this continues.............
Pick up your big girl panties and help each other move forward. Every one has great ideas and I think it is only fair that each opinion be heard to the fullest. Make your point and explain so that we can all understand your point of view. I would like to learn from everyone and I can not do it like this. Please have some consideration for a fellow sista. We all go through this BMD why does it have to be here?
Let's rest and relax.......This should indeed be my confort zone...Please don't take that away from me.
cloudy752001, tellitlikeitis......Yall need to kiss and make up....! Whatever the conflict is and reguardless of whoever started it.
YALL SEE WE DON'T HAVE A MODERATOR SO DON'T ACT UP!
Can't yall just see Keia wiping her brow. This is not her battle, but she ready to jump in.
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