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Post by Founder on Oct 21, 2020 5:17:38 GMT -5
Please join us as we discuss another dramatic story from our book "Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama" , it's so much more! “My Baby Mama Is Like The CIA”My man’s baby mama is beyond nosy. I love the kids, but I recently found out that she is grilling them for information every time they come over to the house. I wonder if they are taking pictures or recording my conversations also because I see them messing with their phones a lot. Am I that important? How could it be? Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama - Theme 1 - Page 14 Click here to listen to the recorded reading of this story. Click here to get a printed or digital copy of the book. |
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Post by Founder on Oct 31, 2020 5:07:40 GMT -5
So What's The Deal Here? 1.) Using the kids to spy on the BD and his significant other is pretty low. That would make me and just about anyone else want to hurt somebody. There has to be an emotional connection that makes the BM want to resort to this. 2.) Let the kids be kids and out of adult affairs. Let them enjoy the Easter Bunny, Santa Claus, and the Tooth Fairy. It’s what makes being a kid a beautiful thing. 3.) How is this affecting the kid? If the kid admires the person you are asking them to spy on, they may start to resent you. They don’t know all the details that you know as parents. It can make the kids feel embarrassed for being a part of this situation. It can make kids depressed if they feel forced into this spying activity or they may become angry and simply snap. Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama - Theme 1 - Page 13 Sincerely, Founder babymamadrama.comDISCLAIMER ----------- Please consult with your own legal or counseling professional regarding any information or suggestions. You understand that this information is not intended as a substitute for consultation with a legal professional. Before taking any action in your own co-parenting or family drama situation, you should consult a licensed professional to ensure that you are doing what is right for your situation. |
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Post by Founder on Oct 31, 2020 5:09:21 GMT -5
So What Can You Do? 1.) If you, as the other parent (BD in this case), find out that your kids are in fact being used as spies, then you need to address the situation. 2.) First, you should tell the other side that you suspect they are spying and that you want it to stop. If it doesn’t go well, then ask for mediation with a neutral party and/or put your complaint in writing. 3.) Some people might take this lightly, but you need to let the other side know that this is serious and will not be tolerated because it is very harmful to the kids and an invasion of privacy. If all else fails, you may have to take it to the courthouse. Baby Mama Drama - It's Not Just About The Mama - Theme 1 - Page 13 Sincerely, Founder babymamadrama.comDISCLAIMER ----------- Please consult with your own legal or counseling professional regarding any information or suggestions. You understand that this information is not intended as a substitute for consultation with a legal professional. Before taking any action in your own co-parenting or family drama situation, you should consult a licensed professional to ensure that you are doing what is right for your situation. |
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