Post by nomoredrama on Apr 23, 2008 20:59:32 GMT -5
I have decided to turn over a new leaf. After reading the post and receiving very good advice, I have decided to distance myself from BM. I don't communicate much with her (maybe once every 6 months or every 4 months at most). After getting some great advice (and some not so good advice), I have decided that once every 6 months is too much. I will no longer speak with BM. My DH will be home in a month. He will have to deal exclusively with BM. Of course, I will continue to be of support to my DH. I will be his shoulder and pillar of strength, but BM & I will not speak unless she is calling about emergency regarding SD. Even in that regard, unless DH is not at home, she still won't have a reason to speak with me. I am turning over a new leaf. I will let the group know how it turns out.