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Post by gemmani on Oct 30, 2009 11:34:32 GMT -5
LOL in general  I'm blessed to have my DH, he treats me beautifully and always does his best to shield me from BMD and put me first. He is really a great man  I'm blessed to have decent skids who love me and accept me as their stepmom. I'm blessed to be having my DH's child. Even though he kicks the living daylights out of me for no reason all the time, I'm looking forward to meeting him (and ending the kicks). I'm blessed that I'm not anything like his BM. Karma's a very powerful thing and she's going to get hers. Glad I don't have to worry about that. |
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Post by chalan on Oct 30, 2009 11:40:32 GMT -5
Memy~ I figured out why I’m dealing with BMD. I have the best friends (so loyal) and family (amazing) that any person could ask for. It would be unfair for me to have it all. Therefore, I got thrown some freakin BMD! That’s ok though, I’m dealing with it because my DS is the greatest gift I’ve ever received. (I know it is corny but it is what it is).
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Post by chalan on Oct 30, 2009 11:41:17 GMT -5
Jay~ How was your anniversary? Am I late or early???
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Post by memy on Oct 30, 2009 11:47:38 GMT -5
Chalan ~ Are u not in our Face Book circle of friends???
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Post by chalan on Oct 30, 2009 11:51:44 GMT -5
I'll PM my info. but I don't go on there very often. It was great in the beginninig then......I lost interest.
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Post by jaylady999 on Oct 30, 2009 11:56:10 GMT -5
Jay~ How was your anniversary? Am I late or early??? Our 3 yr anniversary was 10/21. It was very uneventful smack dab in the midst of packing and moving. We didnt exchange a gift or anything because, well...the house was our gift to ourselves and each other. That was enough after all the money we had to shell out. LOL. We went out to dinner and called it one. We moved 3 days later. And here I sit in our new crib amongst the boxes that you ladies wont let me unpack cuz I am on this site all day. LOL. |
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Post by memy on Oct 30, 2009 11:56:23 GMT -5
Please do join in, it's our way of sharing our lives outside of BMD... ;D
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Post by youknow on Oct 30, 2009 12:01:47 GMT -5
girl I was just saying! and Jaylan dont have daddy b/c I dont need to lower myself to those people and the way the live.
Its okay u got 2 BD's, its not like u got 3 & 4 so why are you becoming defensive to my thoughts?
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Post by chalan on Oct 30, 2009 12:02:43 GMT -5
Jay~ I'm kind of a simple girl when it comes to stuff like that so that sounds prefect to me. New place = wonderful gift just the same.
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Post by jaylady999 on Oct 30, 2009 12:05:00 GMT -5
I am simple like that too. It doesnt take much to please me AT ALL. So honestly, for me it was wonderful and I just found our wedding toasting flutes amongst all the rubbish, so I am on cloud 9 right now ;D
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Post by memy on Oct 30, 2009 12:16:39 GMT -5
Youknow ~ I ain't even trippin of you. It's nice to have a good LOL here and there. Last week it was OMG, now here you come...it was nice to have you here again....see you in another year or so..  |
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Post by youknow on Oct 30, 2009 12:20:14 GMT -5
all that comparing me to OMG isnt even necessary. I am NOT on the level of that whack job! So we wont go there right now. I was just stating my opinion, isnt that what we do around here?
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Post by gemmani on Oct 30, 2009 12:25:12 GMT -5
LOL, for all we know you could be OMG pretending to be Youknow! Jj
......But let me stop before we get another post explaining sh!t we don't care anything about and a note from the moderator!
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Post by chalan on Oct 30, 2009 12:31:04 GMT -5
Memy~ Out of curiosity, would you consider another child with the right man. (Maybe it is too soon to ask). I know there is a stigma for a woman to have several kids by multiple men but I think it is more about how the woman carries herself. If she had confidence and dignity, does it really matter how many BDs? I don’t think so.
Just don’t turn into one of those heffa wanting a big payday because they had a kid. Well, you could go date (hopefully marry) a doctor who makes sh*ts loads of money. Problem solved.
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Post by jusdntundstn on Oct 30, 2009 12:43:20 GMT -5
Chalan ~ Nah.. no more kids, it's time to enjoy me... All that baby raising, changing pampers, car seats and all....I'm through. So if there ever should be another, he best be happy with the kids I got now.. ;D Oh and never the money hungry heffa...LOL ;D I got just enough kids to fit MY budget.... |
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