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Post by jaylady999 on Oct 30, 2009 12:53:59 GMT -5
Chalan ~ Nah.. no more kids, it's time to enjoy me... All that baby raising, changing pampers, car seats and all....I'm through. So if there ever should be another, he best be happy with the kids I got now.. ;D Memy, this was me after only having ONE child. I knew I was done after what I went through in my first pregnancy and long before I met DH. I set out to find a man with kids who possibly wouldnt want anymore ;D However, if DH came to me tomorrow and said he wants another baby, I'd have it, no question. But I am glad he is on the same page as me  |
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Post by jusdntundstn on Oct 30, 2009 13:07:08 GMT -5
That's cuz you only have one bio-child now Jay. Let another one pop out and put you through the WHOLE scenario all over again, you might be screaming MERCY after that one too...lol. As for me, I wouldn't care if I NEVER seen another car seat or stroller again....EVER!! This day and age, my chances of finding a man without, is Very close to slim. So chances are, I'll find one whose done just as well.
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Post by slick on Oct 30, 2009 16:37:50 GMT -5
I'm blessed to have a loving hubby. I'm blessed to have a wonderful daughter. Remember her behavior? Sexual activity, bad grades, running away......I had her psychologically evaluated at a 30 day residential treatment center and she was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder I. She goes to therapy and has been prescribed medication for her chemical imbalance. We are repairing our relationship and moving forward and I love it. Her grades have improved, her attitude is a lot more positive, her self image is rising and rising daily. I'm blessed to have somewhat secure employment. I have a wonderful, supportive and LOVING family. I am almost caught up on all my bills. I have lots to be grateful for and this is a great post memy!
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Post by doinwatigottado on Oct 30, 2009 17:11:41 GMT -5
I am blessed because I have a really good job and I love the people I work with. This was exactyly what I wanted. I am also blessed because things at home are NOW normal. It is just the way I wanted things to be. Routine! My husband has had his bottle of act right and BM has been checked and has been quiet ever since. SS only comes on the weekends and the only reason that is great is becasue during the week we can focus on the day to days and our girls TOGETHER. And when SS comes, DH and SS are free to frolic.  AND BM's been blocked from my phone so I don't hear her ringing anymore.  I feel FREE. lol. My daughter started her first year of college this past September and she is doing great. A's and B's on all her papers!! The middle child will be in a karate tournament Sunday and she just got bumped up to a purple belt!! AND Dh has been wonderful. LOVE IT. I think I am very blessed indeed. |
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Post by jaylady999 on Oct 30, 2009 18:55:21 GMT -5
This is a great thread!! One that takes a brief time out from BMD. We are truly some blessed ladies in spite of.... |
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Post by doinwatigottado on Nov 1, 2009 20:24:36 GMT -5
So things have wound down for the evening and I am still gleaming over the day's events!! We had a GREAT day today. I had previously written that my middle baby was entered into a martial arts competition and I am proud to let ma gurls know that she won 4th place in Tenchi Form!! She competed against 6 boys and 7 girls. 3 out of the boys won 1st, 2nd, and 3rd place. DD7 was the only girl placed 4th!! This was the first time we'd ever gone to a tournament. Sorry if I am gushing over this, but it is such an awesome feeling. |
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Post by jaylady999 on Nov 1, 2009 21:34:10 GMT -5
Thats great Doin!! Relish in it, we gotta pump our kids up when they are doin the positive. That is such an accomplishment ;D
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Post by Doin on Nov 2, 2009 9:16:29 GMT -5
I'm relishing and relishing Jay!! lol ;D And we are soooo proud. We def need to UP the accomplishments. It's great positive reinforcement. |
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Post by MsKokamo on Nov 2, 2009 16:11:01 GMT -5
I am grateful to have OPTiONs. Im not stuck as far as anything in my life right now and there's nothing being held over my head. I'm grateful for the ability to forgive, move on from the hurt and that I'm able to see the beauty in things.
and omg, I'm sooo grateful for this peace that I have in my heart! The beginning of this year was pretty rough, but there's a peace that I have and its freakin awesome lol
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Post by chalan on Nov 5, 2009 14:04:23 GMT -5
MsKo~ Options and peace huh? I like that!
Slick and Doin~ What a difference a year can make! ;D I am so happy for both of you.
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Post by doinwatigottado on Nov 6, 2009 15:22:20 GMT -5
Thanks Chalan! |
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Post by gemmani on Nov 6, 2009 16:38:49 GMT -5
Doin, I'm so happy for you! Gush away, that's what being a proud mama's about!!
Congrats to your kids!
BTW, is today your daughter's bday? If so, Happy Birthday to her!
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Post by doinwatigottado on Nov 27, 2009 9:37:49 GMT -5
Gem!!! Thanks for noticing!! I just read this after following this whole someone impersonating youknow thing. SMH!! Tsk tsk tsk. It is a really shame for real. lol.
Anywho, Yes Nov. 6 was her bday. 19 years old!! I still can't believe it!! I'm so proud of her. She just came back home for Thanksgiving this week. She helped out alot. I cooked for over 25 people girl. It was CRAZY!! BUT wonderful! Loved it!! How was your Turkey Day!!
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AND BM's been blocked from my phone so I don't hear her ringing anymore. 
I feel FREE. lol. 