DH doesn't like BM & I to have contact

[brittany]

I was just wondering what thoughts are on this. The BM in my sitch and I have always been pretty much enemies. I have been dealing with her now for about 5 1/2 years. Just recently we have been able to be civil with eachother and even kind of friendly. When she calls to check on the kids, she will call my phone more so than DH's phone and talk to me. This doesnt always happen but it does happen. She says I am just easier to talk to than he is and thats why she does so, DH doesnt like it. He was commenting on it a little until this passed weekend when we got to talking and she started telling me stories about their past (in a somewhat innocent way) but when he saw that one my phone, he questioned me and got VERY mad and called her and told her not to be talking about things with me like that. Right now, he is encouraging me to have as little contact with her as possible.

I am just thinking like, woudlnt he want us to get along? Why does he care whether or not I speak to her more often than not? Has anyone been in this situation and what are your opinions on this? All comments welcomed. Thank you.

[Supermommiii]

I had the same problem, And I didn't unstand what DH was saying until I saw it for myself. When I first started talking to BM she would talk about DH all day and all the wrong he had done her and how he didn't take care of his child and this and that. She basically just was trying to get me to not marry him and change the way I feel toward him. You see DH was only 17 when she got pregnant They were not in a relationship and after she became pregnant she was upset at the fact that he still didn't wanna be with her and after that all hell broke loose!!!!!! ( He and she has told me this so it's not just his side of the story!)
but I was just tell you to listen to DH because and just keep out of it. Besides she probably only talking to you to get in your business and be nosey some BM's just can't let go!

[luvd1]

I agree with SuperM

[brittany]

Thank you Supermommiii-I think maybe that could make sense b/c BM does infact complain to me that DH is very short with her and doesnt give her much conversation, even about the kids and thats why she talks to me. I think maybe you are right, this is normally a very scandalous person and she is now oh so nice and sweet to me. Very fishy I guess....maybe I need to watch myself!

[Supermommiii]

CRAZY BM's are not to be trusted.!!!!!!!!
Yes she may be acting nice now but once things don't go her way I guarantee she will be back to her regular crazy self! You see BM will play that nice role with anyone who entertains her. DON't play into it and listen to your hubby!

[LOL]

LOL!Is this a joke?

[stargazer]

Yeah, I wouldn't want my ex talking to my current girlfriend. That's just mischief right there. She'll turn you against him or just tell you "innocent" stories to upset you and drive a wedge in your relationship. Be civil but not friends. He doesn't want his ex coming over for crumpets and tea with you. How would you feel if he came one day and was like, "Hey, I was just shooting some hoops with your ex. He told me some interesting stories about your past. Cool guy. I'mma' go watch the Lakers game at his house tonight.... and reminesce about his memories of you. Laters babe."

[brittany]

Yeah I can see that. I have put distance between her & I now. I agree with you guys and believe she may just try to cause issues between us even by seeming "friendly"

[lmfao]

ROT ::)FLMAO...dumb hoe

[brittanyy]

cant stay away I see....but YOU'RE the only HOE around raggedy b*tch