Bygones

[ty1981]

As with BMD, sometimes things get out of hand. Typically when it does, someone has to be the bigger person and figure out where it went wrong and let it go.Recently, this site has gotten off track, with well, a bunch of nonsense. I think it's time to bury the hatchet, so to speak, and start over with a fresh, clean slate. Anything that has been said or done to me, I am willing to let go, and I would hope the same for the other ladies(and gentlemen). I would also like to add that none of the advice given here is personal. If you come seeking advice, don't get upset if it's not what you want to hear, or delivered the way you want it delivered. Take what you can from it, most of us have found a way to deal with our drama and can give excellent advice. Furthermore, it's your life, ultimately you will do what you want...but if you had all the answers, you wouldn't be here. ;D On that note, I'm going to work....have a great day everyone and God Bless.

[brittany]

I agree! I have no more energy to keep up the bickering....I have said things that I shouldnt have and have heard a lot of crazy things that were said to me as well. I am not at all holding on to that and I can say it is refreshing to know this can be over with for sure. It really did get SO out of hand and all that so called hatred does do a number on my body. It may only be the internet but all that ugliness can wear a person down. I let a side of me show and gave everyone an impression of me that is NOT really me at all. I guess I just figured oh well, I dont know them, they already hate me so what is there to loose and let my anger from comments get out of hand. Anyway I wont ramble, but thank you for saying that TY.

[gemmani]

I agree Ty. Our original intentions are fine, but it got way out of hand. I had started to almost dread opening certain posts. I don't like the fact that we allowed ourselves to sink to these levels and it's time we resumed being the grown women we normally are. This is a place to figure out how to minimize the drama in our lives, not start up some senseless drama in a place where we are supposed to be able to vent freely and seek advice. I'm totally done with this "feud".

[brittany]

Another thing, my intentions were never to make this board what it has come to. There were so many people who'd come in here to vent. As a wife who had BMD and who knows may agin in the future I know how much it helps to be able to speak to people about it, people who feel you and can help you and have been there or are there right now as well.

[denvergirl]

TY- what happened to you should have never happened. I am glad to see you're such a forgiving person.

I'll miss this board. I still wanted to try to be apart of it, but after being denied from the new site (due to someone else being crazy) and now not knowing who to trust on this site and still seeing the crazy insane poster continue to be her crazy insane self and act like nothing happen, I do believe it is best for me to leave. Good Luck to the ladies who truly want to help!

And Ty, if this board does go back to what it was when I joined please let me know. I'd be happy to come back with a refresh start.

Happy Holidays ;D

[lmfao]

it is what it is....buh bye!

[petty]

LMFAO- Why are you still here? Don't you have another board to tend to ;D