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Post by JMONEY27 on Jan 13, 2010 12:41:10 GMT -5
Hey I am new here and just wanted a little bit of women advice from both the BM and GF point of view. I have been with my gf for about 7 years and have been messing around with my BM for six. I don't have kids with my GF but have a son with my BM and she is also 6 months pregnant with my child. For some reason I tend to always take my BM side when she fights with my GF and seem to treat her better than my GF. Me and BM have never had a real relationship between us yet I pay her rent give her money and buy her thing, which are things I don't even do for my GF. I'm just confused about things. who should mean more to me my BM or my GF?
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Post by xxx on Jan 16, 2010 15:15:46 GMT -5
You need to ditch the girlfriend because you are only hurting her. It's obvious you only truley care for your bm and you girlfriend is really your fun on the side. Step up be a man and take care of your blood by being there
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Post by renelane on Jan 17, 2010 1:23:42 GMT -5
you sound like someone I know. Unless you are truly stressed by the drama that you are causing to keep going until it blows up in your face. Why on why do you keep messing around with your BM besides the fact that she keeps letting you. Also why does your GF keep allowing you in her life when you two have no ties. Life is short and you all are making life harder than it has to be for no reason at all
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Post by honesty on Jan 20, 2010 22:47:53 GMT -5
you got to be kidding... you need to read what u just wrote. it reads as if ur bm is ur gf and ur gf is just a person that u met at the club or something. the question you need to ask your self what keeps you with your gf? if you had a family with ur gf than of course she is the important one that u should put first before the bm. you should stick up for her and protect her. but since u dont have any kids but justhave time invested than you need to not be a coward and let her go and be committee to your bm. plz take ur gf feelings inconsideration and for once do the Honorable thing and let her go. do right by her for once!
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Post by come on on Jan 27, 2010 17:40:31 GMT -5
Boi stop!!!!! where they doin dat shyt at?
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Post by MzLala on Mar 3, 2010 19:42:11 GMT -5
You are a major DOGG. You to d**n old to be playing games. IMO both women should smarten up and leave ur triflin' ass. Your BM is mb ass hell for allowing you to come thru and hit, nonetheless get pregnant by you again knowing you aint no d**n good. Your GF should just leave cuz obviously ur still a little ass boy.
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Post by mex1111 on May 8, 2010 1:44:30 GMT -5
Dude, this is terrible...
MzLala put it straight.
YEARS messin' with two women??? That's F'd up!
In your case BM is more important. You're giving her everything already.
You shouldn't have two women, man. I'm assuming your girlfriend sees other dudes, or what?
It doesn't matter, just stay single! Focus on raising your kids!
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Post by youknow on Jul 17, 2010 17:59:23 GMT -5
You obviously have more feelings for your BM. Your GF is just somthing to stroke your ego with like you have 2 women. I think you are intrigued with the fact that you are getting away with what you are doing. Both women need 2 wise up. GF obviously doesn't know what you are doing for BM. I applaud you for taking care of your BM and kids and not just treating them like trash it shows you have some set of moral standards. But karma is a bi*ch and you can't f*ck her so if you not feeling GF let her go and quit complicating her life.
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Post by mrstired79 on Jul 28, 2010 22:41:15 GMT -5
WOW, I hate to beat up on you, but you are doing your GF wrong. You need to be real about this and let your GF go so she can find someone wo is willing to love her the way she deserves to be loved. You can't have your cake and eat it too...and quite frankly, this gives all BFs a bad rep. Be real and stop beng selfish.
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Post by eyeswideopen on Aug 4, 2010 2:28:28 GMT -5
Well, it's obvious that the two girls in your life are too weak and puzzy to leave your selfish ass alone. So why don't you, for once in your life, have a shining moment, show some integrity and let both of these girls move on to men who will treat them better? Who knows, it may be a step in the right direction towards becoming a REAL MAN!  |
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Post by aquari0216 on Aug 19, 2010 15:42:32 GMT -5
u R A f**kED up individual (hopefully its only temporary)....did u just read what u typed...are u serious....u've been with one girl for 7 yrs but f**ked around on her for about 90% of that time.....men like you are what daddies pray for their daughters to stay away from....lemme ask u this...would u want YOUR daughter to be with a man who treats her the way you treat your women?
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Post by hisnewwoman on Aug 23, 2010 10:59:05 GMT -5
I think this is ridiculous! Let the GF go and stop torturing her. You are an sorry excuse for men. Guys like you give good men/fathers a bad name.
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