TIRED OF BABY MOMMA

[MARIE]

My boyfriend of 9 yrs & father to both my daughters, have 2 kids with another woman his daughter is (16) & his son is (11). I love the kids and I get along with them when they visit (we live in diifferent states) they are not allowed to show love for me around her. The problem is his 16 yrs. old is pregnant and his son is failing in school horribly. He is still upset but has no choice but to be supportive of his daughter. We have been talking about moving up north to be closer to the kids to make sure there are ok. The problem is should we? We have a pretty normal life no drama. I don't get along with her cause she is a bad mother and I don't agree with her parenting, so we don't talk jsut to keep the peace for the kids. What do I do??

Thank You for your advice in advance.

[blaquechinadoll]

Do what is best for you and YOURS. If it's not broken, what's to fix?

[renelane]

How come you two aren't married. I have a hard time justifying a woman making decision with a man she' s not married too. If you don't want to move then don't. If you were his wife I would tell you that you have to go where ever your husband goes. He has to do what's in the best interests of his kids for now. So if he can't move closer than maybe he can get custody if she's that bad of a mother