Do u really hate ur baby's mom?

[ihatemybabymom]

I just really want to know how many fellas out there can honestly say that they hate their baby's mom? Although I created a blog called ihatemybabymom.wordpress.com, my only intentions was for people such as myself to ventilate. When a bad break up occurs its no holds barred and everyone is out to hurt one another and usually the victim turns out to be the child or the children caught up in the middle. There is no outlet out there for us men to ventilate which in worst case scenario ends up leading to a domestic violence case and we all know we don't want that. So fellas please before you lose it and get physical with your hands take a real deep breath and post your thoughts and built up frustrations to ihatemybabymom.wordpress.com
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[don t pissmeoff]

I don't hate baby mom, however I've come to realize she's a total NINCOMPOOT( Whatever that means). So I don't even bother talking to her dumb assssssss! I'll see you on your site..............

[2boys336]

NO I dont hate her but why is it that she can piss me off like nobody else when it comes to doing buisness that involves my son. Do I like her? no but I don't hate her either

[ayzha]

I know Im the girlfriend but I still want to answer.

No I dont hate BM anymore. In the beginning I felt that she was always in my life that I was trying to build with my SO. She has never done anything to me directly except broke my glasses and we had one text message quarrel. We speak hi in person and thats about it. I use to try to small talk her so that she could see that I was a nice person but I realized through her short responses that she didnt care. The only communication with her now is through text but not any routine. She is very fake. She tries to be best buds with my BF and he says that they have to be friends for the baby. I dont agree with the term friends but civil is better. She still has issues with me which I hear about every so often when she rants to my bf. She has gotten better though about not calling and bugging so much. She hasnt moved on but she has learned that she better do something.

[jusdntundstn]

^{She is very fake. She tries to be best buds with my BF and he says that they have to be friends for the baby. I dont agree with the term friends but civil is better. She still has issues with me which I hear about every so often when she rants to my bf. She has gotten better though about not calling and bugging so much. She hasnt moved on but she has learned that she better do something.}


My feelings exactly!

SO's BM hasn't seen/met me yet but we have recently switched cars and he now picks his girls up in MY car for their convenience and to make her realize that I'm not just a figment of her imagination. It's funny cuz her reaction was..."You need to tell me these things!!"

Yeah sure, wouldn't you like to be in the know...haha. Ya don't run ish over here sweetie!

Point of the matter is CBM's would like to make BD think that they should/need to tell them every single move they make.....NOT!

[Smoke]

OH YES! I REEEEEAAAALLY DO HATE THIS pregnant dog. I SERIOUSLY think extremely EVIL thoughts when I think of her. I would tell you why, but you do not have enough SPACE for that.

[jhawk]

i dont hate my bm but i do not like her. she is trying to make me look bad but its not working but does cause a lot of bs. we have shared custody so no child support and she keeps doing thing to try n get full, just for child support. i get my kids the same amount of time she does, so dads dont even wanna be in their kids lives well i do and am fighting tooth and nail i dont want anything from her except to stop being an ass and to take care of my kids when she has them. my oldest cries every time i have to send them back to their moms, who kives now with her mom. the baby is starting to cry when i hand him over i hate it. do i hate her no her actions yes

[ihatemybabymomcomhome]

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[mpwife713]

Hello All, I just recently found out that my husband who i have been with for 13 years has a 9 year old daughter. I am still trying to come to terms with how i feel about all this. For now i am trying to be as supportive as i can for our childrens sake. We are going to have a dna test done in the next month just to be sure, but when we seen the child in question there is no denying her. She looks like all 3 of my children and my husband.

As for the baby mama, she is a piece of work. She is always calling and telling me that i need to understand how she feels about all of this and what she is going threw. The games she is playing with my husband is starting to piss me off. She is very very lucky we are stationed in Germany right now or else she would be in a world of hurt.

On a good note i am sooooo happy i found somewhere i can come to vent, being overseas has been hard enough with no family here, and then to find this out 3 weeks ago made being here worse for me.

BTW My name is kristen, Thanks for letting me vent