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Post by doing my best on Jul 24, 2010 11:59:51 GMT -5
So my husbands BM hasn't let their kids come around for a few months now. She says its all bc of me. Well she got a new neighbor who is speaking and living her life for her. The BM is a follower and can't think for her herself. Anyway my husband tries time after time to see the kids. She is now saying he needs to come to her house so they can talk face to face avout the kids (this was the neighbor putting her up to this). My husband is almost willing to do it. I said what needs to be "talked" about in person that can't be talked about over thE phone??? ESPECIALLY when her convos with my husband NEVER are about their kids ONLY ME and how much she hates me. Shall he folloiw her demands to see the kids altho I know she still won't let them over here even if he does talk with her face to face?
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ayzha
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Post by ayzha on Jul 26, 2010 21:27:55 GMT -5
Its about time for a court order. She cant control who her BD deals with especially since you are his wife.
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Post by aquari0216 on Aug 19, 2010 15:29:47 GMT -5
Its time for that pregnant dog to get ova herself....COURT ORDER!
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Post by blessedmama83 on Sept 20, 2010 17:45:51 GMT -5
Im in your same shoes but I also have a kid with him too. But I would NOT let him over there with her at all.
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Post by appleblossom on Sept 22, 2010 0:58:01 GMT -5
I agree with ayzha. COURT ORDER. But what I'm more concerned about is why your husband is even entertaining her demands?  It sounds like some boundary/control issues to me. Has he always given in to her damands? Does he even care how it affects you? |
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Post by ydmjq292 on Oct 6, 2010 22:24:12 GMT -5
a court order will settle everything, make sure you write down every time she denies you from seeing the kids, judges hate that. But in the mean time go see your kids they need there dad, and yes you may have to go by her rules for now but when you go to court the judge will see that you are willing to do whatever it takes to spend whatever amount of time with your kids. He will also see the b/s games she is playing and will award you more time with your children.
p.s...it really sucks that a good man has to fight to see his kids, it is a right not a privilege. kids are not a Pawn in a woman's game of revenge.
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Post by caderona on Oct 15, 2010 17:06:58 GMT -5
COURT ORDER INDEED!
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