Post by eyeswideopen on Aug 4, 2010 2:49:15 GMT -5
For example:
1. BM calls BD at inappropriate times during the night/morning.
Tell BM not to call before 8am or past 9pm unless it is a life or
death emergency. If she breaks the rules either don't answer
the phone or answer it but hang up in her face.
The BM will eventually connect calling at inappropriate times
with getting hung up on and will adjust accordingly.
Once BM is trained properly, reward her with friendly
conversation. This is kind of like spraying a puppy in the face
with water when it does something undesirable. Eventually the
puppy will associate the undesirable behavior with getting
water shot in his face, and will adjust his behavior accordingly.
Once properly trained, reward the puppy when he does
good. The BM, ahem, I mean, puppy will eventually put two
and two together. In order for BM, ugh, I mean puppy (sorry)
to get what it wants, it will have to give you the behavior you
asked for before she, i mean, it can get what it wants.
I'm sleepy now. I will be posting more tips on How to Train your BM through random posts.
1. BM calls BD at inappropriate times during the night/morning.
Tell BM not to call before 8am or past 9pm unless it is a life or
death emergency. If she breaks the rules either don't answer
the phone or answer it but hang up in her face.
The BM will eventually connect calling at inappropriate times
with getting hung up on and will adjust accordingly.
Once BM is trained properly, reward her with friendly
conversation. This is kind of like spraying a puppy in the face
with water when it does something undesirable. Eventually the
puppy will associate the undesirable behavior with getting
water shot in his face, and will adjust his behavior accordingly.
Once properly trained, reward the puppy when he does
good. The BM, ahem, I mean, puppy will eventually put two
and two together. In order for BM, ugh, I mean puppy (sorry)
to get what it wants, it will have to give you the behavior you
asked for before she, i mean, it can get what it wants.
I'm sleepy now. I will be posting more tips on How to Train your BM through random posts.