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Post by aprlo81 on Sept 19, 2010 0:20:11 GMT -5
>:( just recently met the ex, baby's mama. pretty much was told that i no longer in control of my relationship. i was threatened that one slip up she would ensure that my relationship ended asap. she pretty much laid down the law. that i have no right to tell her kid what to do. i completely understand, but when she says that i can't even tell her kid to pick up her toys this is just ridiculous to me. so what am i suppose to do? if this kid pulls on my hair i have to let him/her do it? if the kid runs out into traffic, just let him/her? then she tells me that i have to give up my bed to her kid and my butt has to sleep on the couch, WHAT! that my bf has to sleep with his 5 year old daughter and i have to get use to it. OMG. isn't a 5 year old suppose to be getting use to sleeping on there own. oh! and now she says that i have to pretty much live on her block!!!!! there's no way that i should be told where i can live! i can't let her dictate my life. right? i dont know what to do. and my bf lets her walk all over him and tell him how to live his life, and rolls over and takes it. is it just me or are this things just outrageous???? i need help
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Post by jaylady999 on Sept 20, 2010 11:46:48 GMT -5
Actually, no you dont need help. All you need to do is ignore the entire thing. She has no control over you or your relationship. She definitely has no control over you. But if your boyfriend allows to have control over your relationship, you may want to rethink being in a relationship with him to begin with.
As for the rest of her rants? In one ear and out the other. I am a firm believer in any kids that come through my domain will follow my rules, period. That goes for stepkids, nieces, nephews, kids of friends, it doesnt matter. No child gets to walk into my home and do what they want to do, I dont care who their parents are.
How did you reply to those ridiculous demands?
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Post by appleblossom on Sept 22, 2010 0:53:50 GMT -5
"i was threatened that one slip up she would ensure that my relationship ended asap"  Wow! It would make me wonder why in the world she thinks she has that much power over her BD and his relationship with you.  I'm curious too as to how you responded to those demands. Me personally, the convo would have ended at her threatening to end my relationship.  It's hard to really answer this question cuz I need more background information. |
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Post by caderona on Oct 15, 2010 17:28:37 GMT -5
Your man is giving her that power! You need to check him so he can check her crazy ass! You set YOUR LAW. His baby mama is NOTHING special, by her comments, she is evidently unstable. You are not a nobody in the situation. She gets respect when she respects you. She get no respect JUST because she could breed, even dogs can do that. Women get respect by having class, grace and self worth not just because they can breed. Let your man handle that craziness. And if you are living in that house and the child comes around, you are the woman of the house and you set your rules that govern your house. She controls nothing. She should go fall on a peg! NO DOUBT!
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