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Post by omghelpme on Sept 29, 2010 16:02:38 GMT -5
Hi all. I ran across this site & was hoping someone could help me, it is a long story but to some it up. I am 39 my bf is 39 we have been living together for 9 months now, he has a babymama with 2 kids 2 & 4 years old, his babymama has been calling, texting, emailing & even came to my house @ 2am with friends throwing rocks @ my car, I got a restraining order on her after about 3 months of this, ok about 5 months ago she texted me with ultrasound pics that she is preg with his twins, he say that they are not his (ofcourse) but she insists they are, oh did I tell you they work togehter? she says they mess around @ work, he denys it, we did confront him one day when I picked him up @ work, he stood by me & called her crazy to her face, she has sent me tape recordings of them talking about the twins being his but was hard for me to hear. There is soooo much more but it would take all day. Anyway she did finally let us keep the kids last weekend, it was very hard they are jusr babies but the girl acts & looks just like her. I pretneded to be someone else on myspace to her to get info, she thinking I was this guy told him (me) me that they are his twins that they mess around all the time & that when we brake up he runs to her. I dont know what to do anymore, she doesnt quit, some of my friends say she does it to brake us up to get him back, others say they are his twins. The twins are due 2 days before our 1 year ann. He swore on his mothers grave that they are not his. He talks a good talk, but then so does she. I have never had to deal with this in my life, it is all crazy & very confusing to me. Hope someone can help. Thank you.
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Post by omghelpme on Sept 29, 2010 16:22:42 GMT -5
I wanted to add that I have met his family, only one of is cuzins dont talk to us because she is friends with BM, he asked me to marry him, many times, my kids love him, they are very close. I love him very much. My gut tells me not to believe him, my heart in madly in love with him. But I feel like I am going crazy during the week when he is @ work. I have never let a man get to me like this. Help please.
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Post by changeisgonnacome on Oct 2, 2010 20:14:26 GMT -5
Hi all. I ran across this site & was hoping someone could help me, it is a long story but to some it up. I am 39 my bf is 39 we have been living together for 9 months now, he has a babymama with 2 kids 2 & 4 years old, his babymama has been calling, texting, emailing & even came to my house @ 2am with friends throwing rocks @ my car, I got a restraining order on her after about 3 months of this, ok about 5 months ago she texted me with ultrasound pics that she is preg with his twins, he say that they are not his (ofcourse) but she insists they are, oh did I tell you they work togehter? she says they mess around @ work, he denys it, we did confront him one day when I picked him up @ work, he stood by me & called her crazy to her face, she has sent me tape recordings of them talking about the twins being his but was hard for me to hear. There is soooo much more but it would take all day. Anyway she did finally let us keep the kids last weekend, it was very hard they are jusr babies but the girl acts & looks just like her. I pretneded to be someone else on myspace to her to get info, she thinking I was this guy told him (me) me that they are his twins that they mess around all the time & that when we brake up he runs to her. I dont know what to do anymore, she doesnt quit, some of my friends say she does it to brake us up to get him back, others say they are his twins. The twins are due 2 days before our 1 year ann. He swore on his mothers grave that they are not his. He talks a good talk, but then so does she. I have never had to deal with this in my life, it is all crazy & very confusing to me. Hope someone can help. Thank you. |
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Post by changeisgonnacome on Oct 2, 2010 20:17:08 GMT -5
Life is too short for you to worry about it. You are not going to change the outcome. If you want to give him the benefit of the doubt wait til the babies are born and demand a paternity test. If you feel he is lying leave him. You were looking for someone when you found him. If he aint nipped the girls behavior in the bud by now she is probably telling the truth.
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