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Post by katty877 on Jan 23, 2011 12:55:45 GMT -5
O.k me and my boyfriend have been together for almost three year but his baby mama is all of sudden causing problems with me and my man. She is still telling people they are together and that i am problem and everything wrong he does to her cause he hates her she blames it on me and she says i ruined her happy family and that i am a home wrecker but everybody is believing HER and calling me out and saying i need to leave him alone because he is lieing to me and is still with her. He has already told her to leave me alone and that he doesn't want to be with her anymore and that he is with me but she has gotten and now has told my sister that they are working things out now and are trying to get back together now and that they broke up a few nights ago when he told her to back off our relationship and alot of problems is coming at me because my family still thinks he is with and same goes for my family. nobody is telling me what to do but dump him and give up but every time we broke (through out the two years) something that had nothing to do with us kept bringing us back together and we are always together from day to night but i still dont know if he lying to me but i can't bring myself to leave me he is always saying he loves me,wants me wants to have a child with (which we have been trying to concieve for a while now), wants to marry me and atleast three more kids out of me and whole nutsload of other stuff but we are both jealous people and it disgusts me to even think about him talking to her and she was at his house today and looked at that as them being together when they werent even talking and were in two different rooms of the house and when they were together he treated her like **** but has not done nothing wrong to me yet and always gets pissed when ever her name is mentioned or he talks to her on the phone and they only have contact when it has something to do with the baby i wanna beat her *** but he told me not to and that she would leave us alone but things have just gotten worse and she spreading more lies but is he is lying to me do you think he is lying to me about her also he is very public with our relationship he has no secrets and hides mostly nothing from me ugh what should i do, should i trust him is he just using me like everyone says he does i am tired of crying cause of this stress and i think i am now pregnant to Love him with my heart and soul but i think my untrust worthyness is making our relationship fall apart we have become distant because of this! What do i do befor i make the biggest **** up in my life
is me?,him, or is she just an obessed babymama that can't let go
cause i'm tired of everyone telling me to leave my man
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Post by Khristine on Jan 25, 2011 19:41:53 GMT -5
Im dealing wit da same shyt. We jus got married a few weeks ago n dis drama shyt dnt end. Im seriously considering running for the hiils. I cant take it. Things would be ok if he jus ddnt have contact wit her but he feeds n2 dis childish shyt, from the kids cant b around me, To the postings on facebook. Im like u pay child support, so she dnt need to call n ask for shyt. If it aint about da kids then it aint no need for conversation point blank... but he wanna sit onda f**kn phone n argue wit da chick. N it irks me to my soul, Im like enuff is enuff. So basicaly if ur man isnt willing to cutt her off and handle it leagally, n put ur happiness first I'd leave. All this drama is unecessary. POINT BLANK she cannot stop him from cN his kids and she has NO say so n who he has them around. All he has to do is take her to court for visiTation rights, pay his child support wateva n she cant say BOO about it. The drama can easily b dealt with. Im going to give this a try if it doesnt work I promise im going to leave. NO man is worth our happiness. If he isnt gonna fix this then its time to go. Because they expsect us to b their n deal w their drama for life its not easy dealing with this Xcepting this, So they need to consider our feelings as well.
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Post by youknow on Feb 24, 2011 17:28:32 GMT -5
Khristine you gotta check your man honey. You are his WIFE. He chose you she cannot keep those kids away from you, you are in his life. She is doing that to try to make him have to come to her or her house. She is jealous plan and simple. Do not let that simple chick win. She needs to put her big girl panties on and get over it. I'm a BM too but that sh*t is ridiculous and childish. Check your boo honey. Don't worry about her.  |
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Post by therealwife on Mar 2, 2011 16:12:55 GMT -5
Khristine you gotta check your man honey. You are his WIFE. He chose you she cannot keep those kids away from you, you are in his life. She is doing that to try to make him have to come to her or her house. She is jealous plan and simple. Do not let that simple chick win. She needs to put her big girl panties on and get over it. I'm a BM too but that sh*t is ridiculous and childish. Check your boo honey. Don't worry about her. BM in my sitch tried that too, she said that SO needed to come to her house to visit the kids. They live in another state! Not to mention, they enjoy themselves when they come up here (well one did until I had to check her behavior, now she hates me and I'm dangerous and stuff), and they even look like me! Karma is a mother, I tell you. If you are married, BM is going to have to cope. Do NOT let heifer ruin your marriage, because that is what her miserable tail wants. |
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Post by whocares on Mar 2, 2011 16:43:49 GMT -5
@katty877
You need to seriously talk to your BF because HE has BM drama NOT YOU! He needs to be the one dealing with her!Every time somebody calls you out than he needs to call them out! Honestly it's not your drama to have to deal with...As far as whether your BF is lying to you or not I doubt it because you two wouldn't be together day n nite. I'm sure your BF means what he says it's just he needs to KEEP THAT B***CH IN CHECK!!!
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