Post by therealwife on Mar 2, 2011 14:48:41 GMT -5
Last time I posted here was in May I think, I haven't really had much to talk about. I see that unfortunately for many it's the same old drama with the babymama. She's still a (relatively minor now) thorn in my side, too.
Before the end of this month, the WAY FREAKIN LONG overdue divorce will finally be complete. It's just the 21-day waiting period, now. BM is an idiot, she actually thought she could call SO's lawyer and make her demands. The legal assistant and I got a laugh out of that. They told her that if she wanted something, she had to file an answer. Well, I think she did, but the state she lives in is an "at fault" state, meaning they look to see who is responsible for the relationship going bad. Well, she has this 10-year-old kid running around that is not my SO's, and that posed a problem. She then tried to raise the child support, but quickly learned that she would be getting less due to my child, and due to the fact that what she is getting was based upon her (fraudulently) reporting a zero income, and that it didn't matter how much money SO was making now, she'd still be getting less because she is making more.
Her new weapon is brainwashing SD1, who copped an attitude the last time she came to our house, abusing our hospitality because she didn't want to do something she was supposed to do that week. You come sit in our house and ignore us for a week just because you don't want to listen to someone? Wow... Well, long story short, she leaves on FATHER'S DAY MORNING without so much as a goodbye, lies to my face about a gift I gave her (because I felt guilty that the poverty we were living in due to babymama's identity theft, tax fraud, and the only legit thing the child support, kept us from dishing out the customary $100 on the birthday...my car needed to be fixed. My bad!), and then goes on a sassy rampage against me, her father and a mutual friend. She got put in her place, and got upset. Now BM is crying that I did some sort of psych damage to her (by asking her who she thought she was). Well, that's all she has left. Luckily SO continues to defend me.
As far as I'm concerned, like mother like daughter. SO has a second daughter, who is coming to spend some time with us next month. She called Christmas day asking us. I will never say no to my SDs being here, because my Daddy is dead, and tomorrow is promised to no one. I would never get in the way of SO being with his kids.
But his babymama can go to hell with gasoline jeans on. Identity fraud committing, selfish, lying backstabbing psychotic beeotch that she is.
The first time I met her I extended my hand as a grown woman. She acted like a child from the first. I doubt she'll ever grow up, but as we come up with more and more documentation of her fraud, isht just keeps getting better and better.
I don't understand how some women seem to think that their reproductive organs are made of platinum. So you gave birth first. You also gave birth to someone else's kid. You don't deserve to be kept in high style for that. And I won't put up with your spoiled kid putting negativity in my home. We've fought enough over babymama. My son has autism and sensory processing disorder, and the last thing he needs is a home that has turmoil. He's seen enough, as SO and I have struggled to maintain our relationship in the face of illness and poverty. We're finally moving past that, and I'll be d*mned if babymama continues to be an issue. Every time I think of her, Keri Hilson's Pretty Girl Rock runs through my head. "Jealousy 's the ugliest trait, don't ever do it!"
Before the end of this month, the WAY FREAKIN LONG overdue divorce will finally be complete. It's just the 21-day waiting period, now. BM is an idiot, she actually thought she could call SO's lawyer and make her demands. The legal assistant and I got a laugh out of that. They told her that if she wanted something, she had to file an answer. Well, I think she did, but the state she lives in is an "at fault" state, meaning they look to see who is responsible for the relationship going bad. Well, she has this 10-year-old kid running around that is not my SO's, and that posed a problem. She then tried to raise the child support, but quickly learned that she would be getting less due to my child, and due to the fact that what she is getting was based upon her (fraudulently) reporting a zero income, and that it didn't matter how much money SO was making now, she'd still be getting less because she is making more.
Her new weapon is brainwashing SD1, who copped an attitude the last time she came to our house, abusing our hospitality because she didn't want to do something she was supposed to do that week. You come sit in our house and ignore us for a week just because you don't want to listen to someone? Wow... Well, long story short, she leaves on FATHER'S DAY MORNING without so much as a goodbye, lies to my face about a gift I gave her (because I felt guilty that the poverty we were living in due to babymama's identity theft, tax fraud, and the only legit thing the child support, kept us from dishing out the customary $100 on the birthday...my car needed to be fixed. My bad!), and then goes on a sassy rampage against me, her father and a mutual friend. She got put in her place, and got upset. Now BM is crying that I did some sort of psych damage to her (by asking her who she thought she was). Well, that's all she has left. Luckily SO continues to defend me.
As far as I'm concerned, like mother like daughter. SO has a second daughter, who is coming to spend some time with us next month. She called Christmas day asking us. I will never say no to my SDs being here, because my Daddy is dead, and tomorrow is promised to no one. I would never get in the way of SO being with his kids.
But his babymama can go to hell with gasoline jeans on. Identity fraud committing, selfish, lying backstabbing psychotic beeotch that she is.
The first time I met her I extended my hand as a grown woman. She acted like a child from the first. I doubt she'll ever grow up, but as we come up with more and more documentation of her fraud, isht just keeps getting better and better.
I don't understand how some women seem to think that their reproductive organs are made of platinum. So you gave birth first. You also gave birth to someone else's kid. You don't deserve to be kept in high style for that. And I won't put up with your spoiled kid putting negativity in my home. We've fought enough over babymama. My son has autism and sensory processing disorder, and the last thing he needs is a home that has turmoil. He's seen enough, as SO and I have struggled to maintain our relationship in the face of illness and poverty. We're finally moving past that, and I'll be d*mned if babymama continues to be an issue. Every time I think of her, Keri Hilson's Pretty Girl Rock runs through my head. "Jealousy 's the ugliest trait, don't ever do it!"