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Post by just2beme on May 11, 2008 12:37:23 GMT -5
ngoodman, you are getting a P-I-E-C-E alright. But, until you stopping, hitting it, you will get no P-E-A-C-E. You aren't still sleeping with your baby mama for peace. You are sleeping with her because you want a piece. You still biting off the left overs so obviously you aren't ready to throw them out. Just get back with your baby mama because sooner or later you will have two children by her and double your trouble. Here you are complaining about the drama but you are smack dead in the middle of it causing the drama. So you must like what you are getting. Do you think that it makes you man not to be still hitting it? You aren't a man until you start thinking with your big head and not your little one. Peace out!
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Post by angelnmo on May 11, 2008 13:03:45 GMT -5
Ngood man, please stop what you are doing. For whatever reason you are still being with your BM, if you don't stop, you will end up with 2 kids with her. I think you girlfriend already knows this. You need to realize it too. And not all men have to prove their manhood by being with multiple women. Some men do realize they made the biggest mistake of their life laying down with the BM. A man realizes his mistakes, owns up to them, changes his behavior and learns from it so that he doesn't repeat it ever again.
Think about it this way. If the roles were reversed, would you want your "future wifey" giving up the goods to her baby daddy in order to keep the peace. Would you be willing to share your woman's body with another man so that she could stay on good terms with the father of her children. Then always wondering if she gets caught slipping one day and ends up pregnant for him again?
I don't think you would consider your future wife's ass fair exchange for a child support check from her baby daddy!
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Post by angelnmo on May 11, 2008 13:43:43 GMT -5
Oh, by the way ngoodman. That's just it. She doesn't get it that you r just laying it down to keep the peace. Let me give you a woman's perspective.
A lot of women make the mistake that they can change a man. I'm telling you right now. She is letting you lay with her in hopes that if she puts it on you good enough, you will come around, realize what you are missing, and come back to her. She won't tell you this, but she is thinking it.
Same thing with that friends with benefits or (f**k buddy) arrangement. Usually the woman goes into this agreement with the hopes of it leading to something more in the future. Or maybe she had every intention of keeping it strictly casual, but somewhere along the way fell in love.
I bet this is what happened to you initially? You had a f**k buddy arrangement with the girl, then WHOOPS, she "accidentally gets pregnant, hoping this will push the relationship to the next level because she developed deeper feelings for you that she felt weren't reciprocated?
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Post by wowposter on Sept 11, 2008 3:17:31 GMT -5
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