Post by Malia on Apr 23, 2011 4:33:38 GMT -5
I am new to this so I guess I'll just give a quick run down of my situation. I met my fiance a few years ago. We were both going through a messy divorce from our ex's. We found some solice from each other since we both understand what we are going through. He has kids, but I don't.
When we first got together she went nuts. She started to stalk me like crazy. She even called my work looking for me. She even got her friends to stalk me. He tried to get her to stop, but she insisted that she isn't doing anything. She text me like crazy horrible things and decided to put my personal information out in the internet to find me. I decided to be the better person and even to this day I have NEVER retaliated against her. There i more but I guess you get the idea.
So we decided to move just to avoid her BS. While we were in another state she decided to put a restraining order on her saying that I stalk her and harass her like crazy and the judge approved it even though it wasn't true. We managed to get a lawyer and got it dropped plus got that judge on an investigation for approving it without evidence. She lies so much it isn't even funny. I mean it has gotten to the point where she even called his parents to pretend that it i me!!
She harassed my family and his family and brainwashed the children. Everyone think she is crazy. It got to the point where her parents tried talking to her to well let go but she doesn't see anythign wrong with it.
Even with all of this crap, I am still tryig to be the better person and refuse to retaliate but rather just ignore her. I would thinkt hat doing that will make her stop but it hasn't. I mean I am trying to be supportive to him and his children. I mean I refuse to let her get me. Sometimes it is just frustrating! I mean how easy is it for me to just cuss her out, but I mean I just refuse. I keep thinking I will be the better person.
She still begs him to go back with her. She really thinks that I am a hoe and he is only with me for my money (which BTW I want to know were this supposed money is). Even after 5 years I am still the hoe.
I'm trying to figure out how do you guys deal with this type of drama? I mean I have always tried to avoid drama in my life, but I get frustrated sometimes too. Any advice?
When we first got together she went nuts. She started to stalk me like crazy. She even called my work looking for me. She even got her friends to stalk me. He tried to get her to stop, but she insisted that she isn't doing anything. She text me like crazy horrible things and decided to put my personal information out in the internet to find me. I decided to be the better person and even to this day I have NEVER retaliated against her. There i more but I guess you get the idea.
So we decided to move just to avoid her BS. While we were in another state she decided to put a restraining order on her saying that I stalk her and harass her like crazy and the judge approved it even though it wasn't true. We managed to get a lawyer and got it dropped plus got that judge on an investigation for approving it without evidence. She lies so much it isn't even funny. I mean it has gotten to the point where she even called his parents to pretend that it i me!!
She harassed my family and his family and brainwashed the children. Everyone think she is crazy. It got to the point where her parents tried talking to her to well let go but she doesn't see anythign wrong with it.
Even with all of this crap, I am still tryig to be the better person and refuse to retaliate but rather just ignore her. I would thinkt hat doing that will make her stop but it hasn't. I mean I am trying to be supportive to him and his children. I mean I refuse to let her get me. Sometimes it is just frustrating! I mean how easy is it for me to just cuss her out, but I mean I just refuse. I keep thinking I will be the better person.
She still begs him to go back with her. She really thinks that I am a hoe and he is only with me for my money (which BTW I want to know were this supposed money is). Even after 5 years I am still the hoe.
I'm trying to figure out how do you guys deal with this type of drama? I mean I have always tried to avoid drama in my life, but I get frustrated sometimes too. Any advice?