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Post by outofmymind on Apr 27, 2011 12:51:08 GMT -5
I have been with my partner for the last 9.5 years we have three children together and he has 1 other child with someone else. Its been a long road. But recently as thing were going well and it seemed that finally there was a light at the end of the tunnel! but of coarse BM had other tricks under her sleeve. Apparently BM has not been taking care of her child and child's maternal grandmother called frantic with all these issues. That somehow the child was not talking about. Because she was warned by BM not say anything. Well BM has now the idea the since she is not working that my BF needs to support her and her new man. I am out of my mind we have to go to court to re access the current order. I am upset because I have for the past 3 years been working and going to school for my degree I am almost done, in the process of purchasing our first home together and now the drama begins once again. She is constantly throwing comments out how he only spends money on his family and not his child. Needless to say that this past Christmas she received more then my own kids because of the fact that she is not working we did a bit more this year! I really do not want to re visit all that negativity its going to derail my focus! This time around I know it going to be worse!
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Post by Joindaclub on May 14, 2011 23:41:10 GMT -5
Join the club. A lot of BMs think of BDs as banks. The funny thing is that they know the guy was broke when the slept with him but as soon as the pop out a kid, they expect the man to win the lotto or something. Get real. He was broke when you laid down with him and he is still broke, even after the baby is born.
Oh, and if the guy looks like he might be living a little better than a bumb, the BM feels like she is missing out. Please. Sickening!!
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Post by eventualesq on May 31, 2011 22:24:47 GMT -5
That's what these beaches do. They will always lean on the man who pulls his weight and slack when it comes to the average, downtrodden, unambitious, wannabe, hiphop, weedsmokin, underachiever. That's what they love, right? When will they learn? It's gonna take a revolution from the rest of us.
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Post by dolphinfrk on Jun 1, 2012 16:04:11 GMT -5
I know how that feels... my DH pays over $800 a month is cs not to mention everything else he gives MB and the kids (he has twins) but she will come over and demand him give her $300 right than and there, crying she has no money to pay the past due dr bills (yet her new bd is sitting in her NEW truck with bags packed to go to a hotel for the weekend) Oh and in 6 years that I have been around she has only worked for if anything MAYBE (being really nice here) 6 months.
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