Post by maineak on Jul 10, 2011 0:47:26 GMT -5
Ok me and my fiance live together and have been seeing each other for about 2yrs now. He has two kids by another woman that he had been with for 7 yrs. She has never had a job in her life, when they were together he took care of everything. So, she has not yet gotten over the fact that he has moved on, and she is very jealous. When we first started dating, she used to call him all the time asking for money and just wanting to chit chat. That was fine when he was single, but now that he is with someone that is just not something you can do. If the kids need something that is different, but she is calling him to ask for money to put minutes on her prepay phone. Ok, so trying to make a long story short, when he calls to talk to his kids, she has been telling her mother, that she lives with, that my fiance is threatening her. So, i told her mother he has never done that because im always sitting right there with him when he calls. So, now she always says she doesn't want him to call when im around. I always seem to be the topic of conversation also. I never try to interfere until she brings up my name in the conversation. Im always a b**** or a h** or any name she can think of. Ok, so fast forward to him trying to call and check on his kids and she never answered the phone, all of a sudden her brother calls my fiance and his cussing him out from 200 miles away. My fiance is not argumentative and her brother was trying to over talk him so I told him not to call his phone anymore... now i should explain that i am very protective of ppl that i love and when my feelings are hurt i get upset. We have tried so hard to be respectful and it just ends up slapping us in the face. So, the police calls us today and says that she told them that we are calling her making threats. When her brother is the one that called my fiance's phone and telling him dont call or he is going to beat him up and what not. So we have decided to just leave the situation alone.. my question is, should he still try to call his children? He lives so far away that he cant see them regularly, so what do you do when they do not let you call. He pays his child support, this chick doesn't work and says she doesn't have to work, its crazy. She stays with her mother and her kids share a room with her in a trailer. Its really ridiculous. She calls his mom all the time and always asking her to do things for her and he cant even call her mothers house to see how his kids are doing. Its really sad and frustrating.