Post by born2badiva on Feb 10, 2012 15:52:47 GMT -5
Hi! I'm new on here. This is my dilemma. I've been dating my sweetheart for 5 months now. He has a 6 year old daughter. He has explained EVERYTHING to me regarding him and her and there past. They broke up this past summer because of her infidelity. Over the course of years she has cheated on him, stabbed him, burned and cut up his clothes, cursed him out a numerous amount of times and ALWAYS tell him he not s*** and will never be s***!! Now he says that he never cheated on her and always did for her and his daughter. They were once engaged, but due to the fact that she was cheating on him he called it off. There have been times where she would get mad at him for whatever reason and wouldn't let him see his daughter, she even went as far as to move to another state three times out of spite. He really love and care about his daughter, he takes really good care of her and i've witnessed this with my own eyes. He has told her not to call him unless its something regarding his daughter. I've noticed how she has been calling him and asking can he buy her certain things just because and he would tell her no, then she get mad and not let him see his daughter. Now here is the real problem, if me and him are out, and she call he NEVER tell her he is with me. The last time we were out and she called, she told him about there daughters parent teacher conference and that she just dropped the little girl off with his parents. She asked where he was at, he told her "oh im with my boy Kevin at the gym"! I got pissed off. He said the only reason he told her that was, if she knew he was involved with someone she wouldn't let him see his daughter and get really upset. Now if him and her are no longer messing around and not together, whats the big d**n secret. How does he think that makes me feel. Who cares if she get mad, she don't want him "supposedly". He is a GOOD man and i really like him, but im just confused about this situation. I need advice ASAP!!!!!!!!!!