Post by shellsbells on Feb 21, 2012 14:54:28 GMT -5
My boyfriend and I have a 7month old daughter. He has 2 children 6 and 4 from his former marriage. They have been separated for over a year.
Before I was pregnant I had met his children. Now that the baby is here he has major anxiety about them meeting. Also, I havent met his mother and she hasnt seen the baby.
I am patient and want the meeting to be a healthy one but I am definitely feeling frustrated! He doesnt know how to handle it. The BM has left me nasty messages and doesnt want her kids around me etc. He watches the children many times a week so that she can go out and this week she is even on vacation with her boyfriend.
Anybody else dealing with this? They are half siblings and time is speeding by. It feels like he's living two separate lives.
Before I was pregnant I had met his children. Now that the baby is here he has major anxiety about them meeting. Also, I havent met his mother and she hasnt seen the baby.
I am patient and want the meeting to be a healthy one but I am definitely feeling frustrated! He doesnt know how to handle it. The BM has left me nasty messages and doesnt want her kids around me etc. He watches the children many times a week so that she can go out and this week she is even on vacation with her boyfriend.
Anybody else dealing with this? They are half siblings and time is speeding by. It feels like he's living two separate lives.