Post by Jasmine Sky on Apr 1, 2012 22:09:28 GMT -5
Hi,
I am new to this site and all BMD, my story is my boyfriend of almost 3 years cheated on me with a co-worker. It was not a real relationship between them it was just sex. After fighting like cats and dogs with him and me putting my ego aside. We stayed strong and worked on our love like crazy. Not sex but real love. Well the other girl got pregnant- of course because he has alot of money and she was thinking she could trap him. As we know the law works in the favor of the woman. Anyway fast forward...she knew about me- but kept the baby. Now wants him to be involved. She first told me she was going to have to get 2 jobs and she wanted nothing to do with him. I think she thought he and I would break up- and he would become her baby daddy providing for her/them. I said to her- What did you think was going to happen when he is lying to you- cause she caught him lying to her- and I said you knew he was cheating on me- you got no I love you's- you did not meet his friends or family...after knowing him 3 months you keep his child?
No health insurance too!!!!!! But my guy has money so that right there is how she got him...
Anyway, fast forward he does not want the baby- he does not want to be a part of their lives. We want kids and the fact that he created one with her- is not really in his head. She beat him up and her mom is a drug addict, and here he is with the pyscho mamma....baby that is not wanted.
Very sad. He does pay but it comes out of his parents pockets- as he can't afford going to court for this child would cost him so much money. She could make 2x her salary with child support.
I know he loves the baby- but he wants to stay away from this bad world of BMD....this woman got him by the balls and I believe he will never cheat again because look at the consequences....she got him in the most vulnerable position.
So we both have to deal with her sending his parents requests- and now its ripping his relationship with his parents apart. The parents want him to be a father to this child...and the baby is 4 months now.
Any advice???
I am new to this site and all BMD, my story is my boyfriend of almost 3 years cheated on me with a co-worker. It was not a real relationship between them it was just sex. After fighting like cats and dogs with him and me putting my ego aside. We stayed strong and worked on our love like crazy. Not sex but real love. Well the other girl got pregnant- of course because he has alot of money and she was thinking she could trap him. As we know the law works in the favor of the woman. Anyway fast forward...she knew about me- but kept the baby. Now wants him to be involved. She first told me she was going to have to get 2 jobs and she wanted nothing to do with him. I think she thought he and I would break up- and he would become her baby daddy providing for her/them. I said to her- What did you think was going to happen when he is lying to you- cause she caught him lying to her- and I said you knew he was cheating on me- you got no I love you's- you did not meet his friends or family...after knowing him 3 months you keep his child?
No health insurance too!!!!!! But my guy has money so that right there is how she got him...Anyway, fast forward he does not want the baby- he does not want to be a part of their lives. We want kids and the fact that he created one with her- is not really in his head. She beat him up and her mom is a drug addict, and here he is with the pyscho mamma....baby that is not wanted.
Very sad. He does pay but it comes out of his parents pockets- as he can't afford going to court for this child would cost him so much money. She could make 2x her salary with child support.
I know he loves the baby- but he wants to stay away from this bad world of BMD....this woman got him by the balls and I believe he will never cheat again because look at the consequences....she got him in the most vulnerable position.
So we both have to deal with her sending his parents requests- and now its ripping his relationship with his parents apart. The parents want him to be a father to this child...and the baby is 4 months now.
Any advice???
