messy ass bm!!!

[hisqueen82]

I have been in a relationship with the love of my life for two years now and he has a four year old daughter whom i love just as much. We have grown quite close and i treat her as if she was my own. The problem is her messy ass mom, who is teaching her daughter the same. When i speak to her on the phone or when it is her fathers time to have her, she always tells me what her mother says about me, which is always negative. That issue is only one but many. I myself will and do not stoop to her level and talk bad about her to her child, and i have ALOT to say. I plan on being in her life for awhile and i am afraid she will try to turn her daughter against me and make her into one negative individual herself.

[jaylady999]

First question, how old is the daughter?

[hisqueen82]

She is four.

[jaylady999]

Oh she's still a baby. I wouldn't put much stock into it, although I think BM sux for doing that. I have to think that eventually over the coarse of time, the child will be able to form her own opinion of you just from spending time with you.