Post by mrskristie on Apr 23, 2012 1:51:54 GMT -5
I feel so out of it!!!! I'm newly married and this was my first relationship with a man that had TWO children by TWO different mothers but......Everybody deserves a chance of correction. They are 10 and 11 and very fond of me but I have a couple of issues. His sons mom is a bit*h and his daughters mom is in love with him but won't admit it. He despises them both and never wants to speak to them unless necessary. I love him for that. Of course, when they heard of the marriage, they instantly got mean. He pays child support and these idiots tried to keep the kids away. His family is also invasive. They will get his daughter without asking him and when she saw us, she would always want to go with us, even if we weren't expecting to see her or had plans. Since we were having sooo many issues, I asked them to respect us and stop communication with their mothers until we got visitation worked out. They attacked me and told me that I was trying to keep my husband away from the family AND that his children were not mine so I needed to stay out. WTF!!!!! As a new wife, my husband and I can do whatever we want to do. I let him initially talk to them BUT our money is combined so things have to go through me too. When he's at work, they're with me. People say to let the dad handle it BUT men are not supposed to make decisions about money guests without consulting the wife. His evil cousins, after the confrontation, invited these two women to a family event. OMG!! Because of this, my husband and I haven't been around his family in two years. We still get the kids though. Was I wrong? Has anybody else been through this? I have an 11 month old and twins on the way. If that family is that disrespectful towards my marriage, they will never meet my children!