Curiousity...

[aims2012]

Ok, my story is a bit long, but I have been seeing someone off and on for about 2 years now, we are finally together, and have been for about 4 months, before that we were FWB's and he would go back to his baby momma but she kept kicking him out.. He is finally over & rid of her, but this woman continues to threaten him because he no longer jumps when she says so... she is making our lives miserable even though it's not my problem but we all know that this also affects the baby whom is not even 2 yet... My boyfriend is struggling with work at the moment and is doing the best he can and loves his son so much & tries to be there for him as much as possible but nothing is ever good enough...

I am also a mother of 2, both dad's are not the best, but I do not give them hell like she does but it's because I don't care and I know that my kids are just fine with me... It's their loss not mine and I surely don't want any part of them, so there is no longer any reason for me to stress about the fact that one dad does not see his son and the other does not pay any child support for his daughter and comes and goes in and out of her life as he sees fit and I let him see her when he wants because she loves him dearly...

SO MY CURIOUS QUESTION WITH THAT BEING SAID, SHE IS MAD ABOUT MORE THAN JUST THE MONEY AND HIM NOT SEEING HIS SON, AM I RIGHT? SHE HAS ASKED HIM BACK IN HER LIFE, THEN KICKED HIM OUT, AND HAS DONE THIS SEVERAL TIMES, AND NOW HE HAS FINALLY MOVED ON FOR GOOD AND IT'S EATING HER UP INSIDE.. AM I ALONE IN THIS AND HOW DO I NOT LET THIS WENCH GET THE BEST OF ME? ONE MINUTE SHE IS A TOTAL B**** & THE NEXT SHE IS SUPER NICE, I GUESS SHE IS HOPEING IF SHE CHANGES HER ATTITIUDE HE WILL COME AROUND LIKE IN THE PASSED... BUT HE IS DONE! IF ANYONE READ THIS FAR, I APPRECIATE ANY ADICE YOU WILL SHARE THANK YOU-

[stepprobs]

I dont have kids but I would have exactly ur philosphy if I did. These BMs that become obsessed with their Baby Daddys is pathetic to say the least. Instead of jus being blessed that their pathetic beggin asses even have kids when some more deserving cant, they strive to make the mans life miserable by throwing a monkey wrench whenever he tries to be truly happy with someone he WANTS to be with. If a man dont want me-----"peace!" however u cant help who u fell in love with and now u are faced with dealing with her pitifulness. I wish I had a solution but Im in rhe same boat. At least we can vent here n get support!

[recondite]

SO MY CURIOUS QUESTION WITH THAT BEING SAID, SHE IS MAD ABOUT MORE THAN JUST THE MONEY AND HIM NOT SEEING HIS SON, AM I RIGHT?

Maybe and maybe not. If she's saying that he should spend more time with his child and provide more those could be legitimate concerns. He should go to court for himself and pay child support along with providing a reasonable visitation schedule. This way if he follows court orders and she still complains you can be positive that it is more to it. Right now there is only speculation.