whats the rule with dating someones bd?

[RealDeal]

I just wanted to get a general consenus. So the more opinions and responses the better!

Ok so ive been seeing someone that i like and vibe with pretty well. I recently found out that i know his baby mama through family. Now i have never been friends with her, and honestly never even really cared for her. always thought she had a bad attitude. but we have hungout through the mutal family member we share. So having just found this out, would i then be wrong to keep seeing her bd? Or is he fair game? Of course hes ok with it, but i dont know if i am. I dont have any kids so i dont really know the rules. please help me

[adivineoriginal]

Hi RealDeal,

In my opinion, since you and her are not friends he is "fair game" as you say. Barring the individual is a relative of yours, a married/separated man, a good friend, etc., a man that has a child(ren) with another woman(en) and are no longer together can date whomever. There are no real rules in that regard. However and I do understand it is a matter of preference or choice and there is no right and wrong, as a woman with no kids as you have mentioned, I would implore you to consider finding an individual that has the same lifestyle as you meaning, no kids. Nonetheless, best wishes.

[recondite]

I 100% agree with adivineoriginal. If I would've known then what I know now I would NEVER date a man with children as I have none of my own. PLEASE look elsewhere!